"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hooked up w/ girl but wtf, am I gay??

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Wow this is scaring me right now. I feel like I might be gay, anyone, here's the story.

Me and this girl alone in my car, and it's her first time. We start making out and I keep my hands moving. After a while (a fvcking while) she gives me head, but I am only semi-hard. You know what I mean? The half way hard, half way not type thing. We switch positions so I can thrust into her mouth and I feel like I'm going to come. I tense and keep going but it never happens, yet it feels great. I kinda just wanted to come at this point but I'm getting tired of holding myself in this position. We stop. I'm limp. The fvck? Little while passes and I finger her and proceed to go down on her. She's loving it but for some reason I am not hard. What's up with this because it's really scaring me ..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol well how into the girl were you? I highly doubt your gay...
 
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faiNt` said:
Wow this is scaring me right now. I feel like I might be gay, anyone, here's the story.

Me and this girl alone in my car, and it's her first time. We start making out and I keep my hands moving. After a while (a fvcking while) she gives me head, but I am only semi-hard. You know what I mean? The half way hard, half way not type thing. We switch positions so I can thrust into her mouth and I feel like I'm going to come. I tense and keep going but it never happens, yet it feels great. I kinda just wanted to come at this point but I'm getting tired of holding myself in this position. We stop. I'm limp. The fvck? Little while passes and I finger her and proceed to go down on her. She's loving it but for some reason I am not hard. What's up with this because it's really scaring me ..
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You probably we're just stressed your first time. Next time relax and enjoy it :)
 
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Lol dude your not gay man this happens to guys all the time. Heck its even happened to myself where for just some reason I have trouble gettin completely hard. Theres a bunch of things that go into it: how horny you are, how much you want the girl, if you have a lot of stress/thoughts runnin thru ur head.

And if you dont feel comfortable in a certain position, then just switch man lol. And if you feel like you cant cvm, then the girl prolly isnt doin enough of a good job. And the reason why u werent hard when u went down on her was cuz ur busy going down on her and ur d*ck isnt gettin any attention.
 
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Sometimes I'll come home and just feel like rubbing one out. I can easily do that in under 5 minutes if I try hard enough. It felt so good when she went down on me but I wasn't even close to completely hard.

I just don't get why I can do it myself so easily yet a GIRL SUCKING me doesn't fvcking work! This is making me ridiculously angry. :cuss:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well it may also be because you enjoy masturbation so much. Masturbating very often can sometimes have this kind of effect, as the person develops such a fond attachment to masturbation, and gets so much enjoyment out of it, that when they interact with a real girl whos not on a computer screen, the experience is not what they are used to, and thus some problems (like what youve listed), may arise.

I mean how long was she givin you head for? And your sayin the ENTIRE time she gave you head, you still couldnt get completely hard?

If I had to guess what the cause of all this is id say its what i described above, combined with you prolly freakin out inside your head while the girl gives you a bj.
 
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I got one vote that says you're a queer. I can't imagine getting blown and not getting off.

Hope you like butt sex.
 
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oi yogurtslinger, how about you stop being a ****ing ****head and actually help people instead of just talking **** all the time?
 
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The guy asked a question. If he didn't want everyone's individual opinion, he should have said 'only post if you have opinion x'. Shoot, even he is thinking that he might gay, I gave my opinion based on the situation at hand. Am I only allowed to say what I want if it agrees with everyone else? I didn't know that I had to fit in with you guys to be allowed on the site.:rolleyes:

I even validated his concerns. What more could you ask for? Should I agree with the original poster or the rest of you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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