"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hooked up w/ girl but wtf, am I gay??

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Wow this is scaring me right now. I feel like I might be gay, anyone, here's the story.

Me and this girl alone in my car, and it's her first time. We start making out and I keep my hands moving. After a while (a fvcking while) she gives me head, but I am only semi-hard. You know what I mean? The half way hard, half way not type thing. We switch positions so I can thrust into her mouth and I feel like I'm going to come. I tense and keep going but it never happens, yet it feels great. I kinda just wanted to come at this point but I'm getting tired of holding myself in this position. We stop. I'm limp. The fvck? Little while passes and I finger her and proceed to go down on her. She's loving it but for some reason I am not hard. What's up with this because it's really scaring me ..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lol well how into the girl were you? I highly doubt your gay...
 
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faiNt` said:
Wow this is scaring me right now. I feel like I might be gay, anyone, here's the story.

Me and this girl alone in my car, and it's her first time. We start making out and I keep my hands moving. After a while (a fvcking while) she gives me head, but I am only semi-hard. You know what I mean? The half way hard, half way not type thing. We switch positions so I can thrust into her mouth and I feel like I'm going to come. I tense and keep going but it never happens, yet it feels great. I kinda just wanted to come at this point but I'm getting tired of holding myself in this position. We stop. I'm limp. The fvck? Little while passes and I finger her and proceed to go down on her. She's loving it but for some reason I am not hard. What's up with this because it's really scaring me ..
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You probably we're just stressed your first time. Next time relax and enjoy it :)
 
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Lol dude your not gay man this happens to guys all the time. Heck its even happened to myself where for just some reason I have trouble gettin completely hard. Theres a bunch of things that go into it: how horny you are, how much you want the girl, if you have a lot of stress/thoughts runnin thru ur head.

And if you dont feel comfortable in a certain position, then just switch man lol. And if you feel like you cant cvm, then the girl prolly isnt doin enough of a good job. And the reason why u werent hard when u went down on her was cuz ur busy going down on her and ur d*ck isnt gettin any attention.
 
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Sometimes I'll come home and just feel like rubbing one out. I can easily do that in under 5 minutes if I try hard enough. It felt so good when she went down on me but I wasn't even close to completely hard.

I just don't get why I can do it myself so easily yet a GIRL SUCKING me doesn't fvcking work! This is making me ridiculously angry. :cuss:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well it may also be because you enjoy masturbation so much. Masturbating very often can sometimes have this kind of effect, as the person develops such a fond attachment to masturbation, and gets so much enjoyment out of it, that when they interact with a real girl whos not on a computer screen, the experience is not what they are used to, and thus some problems (like what youve listed), may arise.

I mean how long was she givin you head for? And your sayin the ENTIRE time she gave you head, you still couldnt get completely hard?

If I had to guess what the cause of all this is id say its what i described above, combined with you prolly freakin out inside your head while the girl gives you a bj.
 
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I got one vote that says you're a queer. I can't imagine getting blown and not getting off.

Hope you like butt sex.
 
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oi yogurtslinger, how about you stop being a ****ing ****head and actually help people instead of just talking **** all the time?
 
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The guy asked a question. If he didn't want everyone's individual opinion, he should have said 'only post if you have opinion x'. Shoot, even he is thinking that he might gay, I gave my opinion based on the situation at hand. Am I only allowed to say what I want if it agrees with everyone else? I didn't know that I had to fit in with you guys to be allowed on the site.:rolleyes:

I even validated his concerns. What more could you ask for? Should I agree with the original poster or the rest of you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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