Hooked UP Twice, Psycho Now

[NSUballer]

I hooked up with this girl I work with a few weeks ago, both time exactly one week apart. I NEVER called her, we NEVER hung out, except for when we hooked up or were at work we never saw each other.

Last week she calls me saying she at this place eating and drinking, I was actually going there before she called to grab some food. I went, sat with her for about 25 minutes then went to this bar with a few people, NOT with her, she just happened to go. Later on I leave at 12 with a buddy to go home and go to sleep. She calls and says call her when I get home she wants to talk, I say why Im by myself. Shes like okay, then says "I really like you and I just want to know how you feel about me"......

I really wanted to ask her how many times I called her since we hooked up and how many times have we hung out. That would have been harsh, so I let her down easy by saying "I realy dont know what to say, no one has ever asked me that before and if you really like me you shouldnt ask me" Like we're in fvckin 8th grade or something. Psycho.

And the last few weeks shes been out at the same place I go, EVERY TIME. Last week she actually "playfully" threw a plastic cup at me that had a little bit of liquor in it and it got in my eye. I was pissed but couldnt do anything, She says "dont hit me, dont hit me" Im like im not gonna hit you, shes like Im sorry dont be mad. I tell her Im not mad but just leave me alone. She looked like she was gonna cry, I actually felt bad for her for a second.

What the hell is wrong with this girl, why would she have the slightest inclination that I wanted anything other than sex 3 weeks ago, NEVER called her or hung out.

I guess she thought, "If I have sex with him he might want me to be his girlfriend".......WRONG

Now I avoid her like she has AIDS or the black plague

 

[Dole]

you first touch her
then you fvck her
and then you chuck her
after that analyze the situation and her psycho behavior and report back to us with a full detailed report.

 

[DJDamage]

You know what's the difference between a washing machine and a young chick?

A washing machine won't follow you around after you put a load in it.

 

[KingBeef]

You know what's the difference between a washing machine and a young chick?

A washing machine won't follow you around after you put a load in it.

Damage...you're horrible, yet hilarious :crackup: :crackup:

 

[KingBeef]

I hooked up with this girl I work with a few weeks ago, both time exactly one week apart. I NEVER called her, we NEVER hung out, except for when we hooked up or were at work we never saw each other.

Last week she calls me saying she at this place eating and drinking, I was actually going there before she called to grab some food. I went, sat with her for about 25 minutes then went to this bar with a few people, NOT with her, she just happened to go. Later on I leave at 12 with a buddy to go home and go to sleep. She calls and says call her when I get home she wants to talk, I say why Im by myself. Shes like okay, then says "I really like you and I just want to know how you feel about me"......

I really wanted to ask her how many times I called her since we hooked up and how many times have we hung out. That would have been harsh, so I let her down easy by saying "I realy dont know what to say, no one has ever asked me that before and if you really like me you shouldnt ask me" Like we're in fvckin 8th grade or something. Psycho.

And the last few weeks shes been out at the same place I go, EVERY TIME. Last week she actually "playfully" threw a plastic cup at me that had a little bit of liquor in it and it got in my eye. I was pissed but couldnt do anything, She says "dont hit me, dont hit me" Im like im not gonna hit you, shes like Im sorry dont be mad. I tell her Im not mad but just leave me alone. She looked like she was gonna cry, I actually felt bad for her for a second.

What the hell is wrong with this girl, why would she have the slightest inclination that I wanted anything other than sex 3 weeks ago, NEVER called her or hung out.

I guess she thought, "If I have sex with him he might want me to be his girlfriend".......WRONG

Now I avoid her like she has AIDS or the black plague

One of the mistakes that you've made was that you didn't made it absolutely clear to her that you didn't want any kind of attachment to this girl. YOU SOMETIMES HAVE TO BE STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH THESE YOUNG GIRLS.

 

[Sandow]

is this new to u? sorry don't mean to be an ass but you should already know this.

 

[verysuave]

how did all this LEAD to the hooking up part?u asked for her number or what? Was she an attention ho3? kino and flirting? spill the details. tnx

 

[macallik]

You know what's the difference between a washing machine and a young chick?

A washing machine won't follow you around after you put a load in it.

Tina Fey called, she wants her jokes back :crackup:


Anyways your example of 'letting her down easy' didn't seem to actually let her down at all. It just sounded like you were confused about the situation. You need to be polite but firm in setting your relationship expectiations

 

[shaunuk]

Well basically man, if you hook up with and fcuk a girl twice, if she likes you she'll pretty much persue you afterwards.

Since you ignored her she tried hard to get your attention and is naturally upset when you don't give it to her (she likes you).

Don't worry about it mate, she'll get over it. In the meantime, you could tell her you think she's cool and all that, but you don't want a relationship at this time.