“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hooked a fish...threw it back in!

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Hey Hey,

So I just had to express what happened to me last friday, I usually get irritated at myself when this happens, but nowadays I've been laughing at myself instead, you'll know what I'm talking about once I explain...

Anyways, so I'm at the sporting goods store (big5) at the mall to get some decent polarized shades (the weather here has been consistently hot for a while, couldn't handle driving w/o a decent pair). Go up to counter to pay for my items, HB 9, probably my age (20) was cashiering for me.

So i walk up, she makes eye contact w/ me, I hold it, she blushes. So I flirt w/ her for a small bit, card reader didn't like my debit, she thought it was funny, laughed at my CF remark "yea, i'm just too fast for it I guess", she grabbed my hand to "help" me swipe it, but It was pretty obvious in her eyes that this was just KINO.

Anyways, after all of these awesome signs, I failed to realize it all until after I payed for my Item and left the store. DONT YOU JUST HATE THAT?

I've been slowly getting back into my female pursuit, so I don't really blame myself for missing this, I was pretty out of it from working that day and changing a tire w/ a pressure jack that goes 1 1/2" feet in the air, which added on to the already tiresome work day, but I just thought it was kind of funny how I handled the flirtation situation so well, yet I failed to go in for a number close.

Anyways, anyone find themselves in that position from time to time? It wasn't so much frustrating because I already saw another HB 9 at that mall who was quite eager to run up and give me a hug, i might add) that I'm going to be taking out sometime within the next couple of weeks, so my confidence wasn't blown at all.

But none-the-less, still a bit of a "stupid me!" situation, although I still find it funny how blatent and obvious the buying signals I got were, yet I didn't get it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She works there right? Unless she suddenly quits, she isnt going anywhere.

Maybe you should try going back there in a couple days. Just don't seem too needy. Say your shades broke or something and buy a new pair or something (If you think it's worth it.)

Don't just throw in the towl. You deffinately should of got her number before you left, she seemed interested enough in you.. so I don't think she would mind you dropping in again.

You really should learn to recognize these signs right as they happen. Not before it's too late. A true DJ would had recognized the signs right then and there and would of went in for the kill.
 

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hehe

Don't get me wrong, If this had been a day where I wasn't so...out of it, the number close wouldn't have been a problem. Not trying to make excuses, but when you just got through an 8 hour work shift, then spending almost an hour in 90 degree sun changing a tire with an ancient pressure jack, you don't really feel in tip-top shape, if you know what I mean.

But yea, they were a 50 dollar pair, so that would probably be a bit extreme to buy a new pair, but I could always go there and get a case for them, something that I actually DO need lol.

I'll probably make another appearance in that store sometime next weekend, can't hurt right?
 
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