Hey, I'm looking for advice on how to get girls at Hookah Bars and House Parties - Keep in mind I'm 17, so the approach might different:
Hookah Bars:
The ones I go to usually have people around the age of 17-21. Last time I went, there were 4 girls sitting at a table across the room that I saw keep looking at my table. Me and my buddies are smoking the hookah and this girl sitting to my left at the table next to us keeps eyeing me, but she's with her guido boyfriend. Anyway, I go to the bathroom and my friend comes along and he hits it off with some girl when I'm taking a piss...I find him outside macking it to her and eventually making out. I go back in and sit down w/ my other friends.
I couldn't think of anything to say or any balls to approach the table across from me and sit down and start talking...
At the table, there were 2 fat chicks HB 4-5 and 1 HB 8.5-9 and the other I couldn't really see.
What are some ****y/funny things you can say to break the ice in a situation like this without making it seem akward. I later find out 1 of my friends knows 1 of the girls sitting there and starts talking to her, we go over and smoke their hookah. I stayed quiet and didn't know what to say really. I'm bad at starting conversations...I usually just coment as one is going on.
Also, how do you isolate a girl you like from her friends. Lets say I wanted to get w/ the HB9, and wanted to bring her outside to talk. How would I do that? Keep in mind, most of the people that come to hookah bars, previously come from clubs where they drank, so once I can get them isolated it would be easy to makeout and # close. My friend was making out w/ the girl 10 minutes later and she wanted to **** him...she kept SMSing him telling him to come to a place, but she looked sketchy.
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House Parties:
Tonight, I'm probably going to a house party in my friend's house where I barely know any of the people there. I've met a few guys and few girls from previous get togethers, but other than that I don't know many of the people that will probably be there.
How do you start up a convo with a girl there...the girls in his town are mostly HB 8-9's and rich. I come from a few towns away that isn't rich.
I'm usually shy at parties especially when I don't know many people other than my buddy who I went with. He knows everyone there so he's comfortable.
I also usually feel uncomfortable at parties because I don't go to many, so its outside of my comfort zone.
I recently brokeup w/ my ex so I want to at least #close 1 of the girls or makeout/possibly hookup with 1. I need to get back out there, but all my game has diminished since my breakup.
I'm good looking and dress well, but my ****y/funny personality is nearly gone and I'm back to the shy guy...I can't spit ****y/funny lines like I used to.
Hookah Bars:
The ones I go to usually have people around the age of 17-21. Last time I went, there were 4 girls sitting at a table across the room that I saw keep looking at my table. Me and my buddies are smoking the hookah and this girl sitting to my left at the table next to us keeps eyeing me, but she's with her guido boyfriend. Anyway, I go to the bathroom and my friend comes along and he hits it off with some girl when I'm taking a piss...I find him outside macking it to her and eventually making out. I go back in and sit down w/ my other friends.
I couldn't think of anything to say or any balls to approach the table across from me and sit down and start talking...
At the table, there were 2 fat chicks HB 4-5 and 1 HB 8.5-9 and the other I couldn't really see.
What are some ****y/funny things you can say to break the ice in a situation like this without making it seem akward. I later find out 1 of my friends knows 1 of the girls sitting there and starts talking to her, we go over and smoke their hookah. I stayed quiet and didn't know what to say really. I'm bad at starting conversations...I usually just coment as one is going on.
Also, how do you isolate a girl you like from her friends. Lets say I wanted to get w/ the HB9, and wanted to bring her outside to talk. How would I do that? Keep in mind, most of the people that come to hookah bars, previously come from clubs where they drank, so once I can get them isolated it would be easy to makeout and # close. My friend was making out w/ the girl 10 minutes later and she wanted to **** him...she kept SMSing him telling him to come to a place, but she looked sketchy.
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House Parties:
Tonight, I'm probably going to a house party in my friend's house where I barely know any of the people there. I've met a few guys and few girls from previous get togethers, but other than that I don't know many of the people that will probably be there.
How do you start up a convo with a girl there...the girls in his town are mostly HB 8-9's and rich. I come from a few towns away that isn't rich.
I'm usually shy at parties especially when I don't know many people other than my buddy who I went with. He knows everyone there so he's comfortable.
I also usually feel uncomfortable at parties because I don't go to many, so its outside of my comfort zone.
I recently brokeup w/ my ex so I want to at least #close 1 of the girls or makeout/possibly hookup with 1. I need to get back out there, but all my game has diminished since my breakup.
I'm good looking and dress well, but my ****y/funny personality is nearly gone and I'm back to the shy guy...I can't spit ****y/funny lines like I used to.
.... my mates cousens (like 4 HB's) then came to the cafe, and we were just chilling with them, it was auquard but i still managed to get good c+f in, but i didnt make a move because they were a couple of years older and they were my friends cousins "bro'z b4 hoez"