"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hookah bar for a date?

HALCYON

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What do you guys think about taking a girl to a hookah bar for a date? Granted that the girl is not real anti-tobacco or anything. They have pretty intimate settings yet its a public place so its not creepy or anything that would put the girl off. Just looking to see your guys' thoughts on it.


On a side note: If you disagree or just to add more input, what are some good places for good first dates? I know the movies are bad and action dates are best, what would you suggest for this time of year when its cold outside so any date will likely be inside (I live in Midwest). Any input is appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SuavePlaya

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LOL first time I smoked hookah I was soooooooooooooo relaxed. It's not a bad idea to me because the hookah shops here have a pretty good setting and it's a relaxing place to go. I would try to avoid the hookah shops that have the loud music in them because you have to raise your voice just to be heard. In my opinion it's a good place because you can actually have a decent conversation, show your different than the average lets go to the movies type of guy and it's cheap. I'd say go for it.
 

Daniel1099

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yeah bro i love hookah...

i would bring another couple thats not dating. but goin on a date like you are because its a really social thing....

get white peach, or sex on the beach, melow dew is good to
 

War Against Betaism

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I frikkin love hookah, whenever me and my friends have nothing to do, we bring out the hookha and for some reason we always have something to talk about. I've actually never thought about going on a date to a hookah even though I always see couples there, great idea.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Personally, I dont care for hookahs. But, I think it is a creative first date. I would say go for it but, have a Plan B. Incase she does not like smoking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unprez

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You know what i hate bout all these places that ur always on opposite sides of each other .. like wtf y cant there one sided seats lol so u have an excuse to eat on same side....... this is why im gonna go shoot pool to initiate more 'closeness' lol
 

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Playing pool is good.

Check out some hotels that have bars/restaurants in them and see what they have to offer. There's one where I'm at that has a nice restaurant with like a big fire pit... great atmosphere. You can sit 'outside' near the pool and there's all kinds of trees and stuff, and right by the pool and the bar is a minigolf course. All inside the hotel near the lobby. Everything is indoors of course (i'm also in the midwest), but it's kind of like being outside plus there's pool, mini golf, an arcade, a restaurant, and a bar all in the same place.

Theres another hotel here that has a big waterpark inside with slides and stuff that's also fun, and they have a bar and restaurant inside as well.

Bowling is also good.
 
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