Hook-Up Report

[Game Player]

This isn't my first post on this forum but I hadn't posted in a while so I guess my other account was shut down, anyways...Little history on me, raised by single mother (getting rid of everything she taught me about women has taken a looong time) Bit above average looks with average build and solid J.O.B.

Wanted to give a hook-up report I recently had with a HB9. I was actually trying to hook up with her friend so that's who I called, to see what she was doing for the night & she said she was gonna be @ a bar. I show up to meet the girl who I called and then I realize her girlfriend who had just added me on FB was there as well. (Notice how I let her ADD ME, don't EVER let it be the other way around, EVER) Again HB 9 at worst and very flirtatious, shades of being an attention w***re. So I focused on the girl I showed up to see and the other girl keeps trying to get my attention the entire night. Keep in mind that I don't even have this girl's #. One thing leads to another and not only did I have both of em in the same bed @ one point making out but I end up laying the HB9 later that night. After we hooked up I left without even getting her #, I figure I'll see her around and if she wants to lay again she'll find a way to hit me up, even if I did get her # I would MAKE SURE I didn't call her back first. She's a player too (most hot women are naturally) so I'm sure it was just business as usual for her, we'll see, I really don't care b/c the main goal has already been accomplished so I'm already on to trying to lay the next girl. I still have MUCH to learn. I've been reading these forums for a while w/o success but if there's one thing I gotta relay about this situation it's this:

1. Try to get out & hang out with women AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. You simply can't expect to hook up with women if you're not ever around them. You'll be SHOCKED how attractive girls will just fall in your lap and what situations you'll find yourself in if you just make yourself accessible.

2. I know you may be tired of reading this but RELAX and call a girl out on her BS. The more attractive the girl the more important this is. Don't put her on a pedestal. For example this girl I laid gave me several sh1t tests (that I recognized immediately thanks to sum of the info I've read in these forums) and I called her out on it right there, don't hesitate (more on that next) sum other dude we were out with failed one of her tests AND she called him out for it, DON'T BE THAT GUY. PERIOD. I called her out on her BS and negged her a lil bit, playfully of course.

3. HESITATION, best way to make sure you'll be at home & playing with yourself. Don't do it. A girl knows whether she wants to hook up w/ u immediately. Act on that and see what happens but if u hesitate you've probably killed your chances forever. There's a CHANCE you could get her back but you could avoid all of that heavy lifting you'll do trying to win her back if you just immediately act on your impulses. It has taken me FOREVER to learn this.

4. Lastly, when you strike out with a girl you need to have a fvck it attitude. It took me forever to come to grips with this as well. Right after you get turned down start trying to get another girl ASAP. Don't focus on a girl who's not interested or into you, it's a waste of time. You actually have a better chance of getting this girl to get interested in you if you actually show her you could care less about her and have the skills to get another girl. If you're not sure if a girl's really into and may just be seeking attention, do like you should do with everyone in your life & pay attention to her ACTIONS. If she's constantly making excuses why she can't meet or not offering other times that may work SHE. IS. NOT. INTERESTED. LEAVE HER ALONE.

Hopefully this helps some people out. Until next time fellas...

 

[Chamber36]

troll

 

[Game Player]

Nah man, not even interested in that. But if that's what you think then there's nothing I can do to convince ya otherwise. Just tryin to help ppl out, that simple.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

what sh1t tests did she throw at you? I feel like I can recognize them pretty quickly myself and react well. But for some reason I can never manage to keep a girl longer than 2 - 4 weeks.

 

[Game Player]

Well like I said before this girl is hot as hell so she gets hit on all the time so she's always tryin to crack on you in front of people see how ur gonna react. She was throwin out random insults @ me all night long and I would just insult her back playfully and laugh. The one specific thing I remember is that she asked me if she could have my napkin which happened to be the last one @ the table and before I could crack on her & say no another guy we were sitting with grabbed it and gave it to her and she called him out for it right there. Something as SIMPLE as that. I know it sounds finicky but that's how these girls work, the only difference now is that I at least recognize that it's a sh1t test where as before I would've done some AFC crap and given it up to her and ended up getting clowned like the other guy did. I've also had a girl ask me to get her phone when she was well within reach of it, back when I didn't recognize that as being strange I would just do it not even realizing she was testing me and would fail. Now I go into EVERY situation with a girl thinkin it's a sh1t test until I get her to actually hook up, and obviously even after that it doesn't stop completely. I still struggle to KEEP a girl but that's b/c of being a selfish only child and wanting EVERYTHING my way or no way so that's a whole other issue. I'm just now getting to the point where I'm laying girls so like I said before I still have MUCH to learn but if you're at least getting laid you're on the right track. I'll try to keep everyone updated on my progress to share what works for me and what doesn't.

 

[ken chang]

To the OP, yes, this is all stuff that we've heard of before, but it's always good to get a reminder. Sometimes, a lot of guys get too into the girl that they forget the rules of the game like "not putting her on a pedestal". So it's good that someone occasionally writes something like this.

 

[David villa]

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