"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hook up/Get to know her better

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PeterCrouch

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Hey basically this gal ive known for a while ive been chatting to alot more lately, and weve both suddenly been intrested in each other alot more!

She told me the ball was in my court for the weekend when i went to see her, but her 2 friends came and i couldnt get enough alone time with her to hook up with her!

Anyway after the weekend coz we live to far we mainly text and phone each other, and she told me she "was suprised that i didnt take advantage of the ball being in my court, because most men would" i was kinda suprised she said this and just said well i cant really hook up with a gal when her best friends are there, she said no probably best not too!

Thing is maybe because it was she was tired i dont know but she had kinda changed after the weekend when i spoke to her, who knows, ill probably find out a lil more tonite, i just wanna know if shes still intrested or not?

Anyway after the weekend, my opinion of her changed a lil, before it was just a hook up, someone id shag etc but not really intrested in her alot more than that but after the weekend i really kinda like her and wanna get to know her alot more in person!

I was thinking about saying something like "well after the weekend my opinion has changed of you (get her to ask why/how etc) then say, well i wanna get to know you better, and not just hook up with ya, which is why i wanna take you out, just me and you, no friends"

sound good?

what ya think?

cheers
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nope! Don't do that. Don't tell a girl how you feel with words, especially when you are getting to know her. If you want to show her how you feel, do it with ACTIONS. Ask her out on a date, then start lightly, non-chalantly touching her as teh date progresses. Make good eye contact with her and smile.

Call her, or tell her, "hey, Let's go out and do (date idea) on saturday at 7:00pm."

Then you get her alone and you can make all the moves you want when you get her to warm up to you again. Then you can kiss her. But don't say that you like her! Just show her.

Don't ever tell a girl you are interested in her for the LTR. That's how you get her interest to plummet into a bottomless pit.
 
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