"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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actionjaxson

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long story short a few friends and i went clubbing and we bumped into an ex-girlfriend of one of them. she had a sexy friend with her and she gave me a lot of attention but my friend put the moves on her first and eventually got her number at the end. next day i found out she said im hot and my friend wasnt able to set up a date with her. so im thinking this girl wants me instead and im trying to get my friend to hook me up with her. am i asking for too much? should i just tell him to give her my number?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't ask ur male friend. If possible ask the exgirlfriend for her contact info. If I were u ill fibd her in facebook. I mean less chance of ****blocking
 
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I've had my friends hand me the girls that rejected them for me. If they're a freind, they will do it. If they knoe they dont have a chance, they should try to hook you up, imo.
 
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if he really wants her then you he should have pulled her back during the night. Seems a bit to late now so he should definitely hook you guys up

just ask him
are you marrying that girl from last nite? cos i thought she was pretty cute
and to meet her you can ask the ex -gf to go clubbing with you guys
and i rkn ask your male friend cos if ask the girl, you'll be doing it behind his back.
 
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