"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Honing sense of humor

EmotionalGeek

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I like my conversations to be funny and stimulating. Sometimes I rely on my own sense of humor but it is very situational. I'm having hard time to start conversations in funny ways. Because of that I rely on scripts that I got from other PUAs and I've tested they work. Downside is I have very few scripts thus I want to get some more material and hone my sense of humor. I wonder whether you work on your own sense of humor and how you do that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't listen to PUA's for humor, they only know sexual jokes and you can't base your sense of humor around just that.

Watch some stand up comedians for inspiration, don't look at what they joke about, look at how they joke. Usually joking and being funny it's structured so that you first have a buildup (of tension) and then a punchline (that releases tension). Other than that it's just creativity, being able to construct a funny line using what's around you and the given context.
 
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