honesty

[check_mate_kid_uk]

this is not just under rated, it is completly forget about! You will be amazed how much girls dig an honest guy!

I know a girl i was god freinds with, would tell me everything and always asked for my oppinion because i was honest. She kept mentioning the fact im honest.

I girl on msn sends me her picture and asks me what i think i point out a few bad things in the picture compared to her other pictures she says do you realise you just dissed me! i sadi yes but you asked for my oppinion so i told you, you wouldnt want me to lie would you. she goes on to say "no your right, its nice that you are honest thats why i like you"

not only do girls dig honesty, if you compliment them they will think well hes honest so he must mean this, so your compliments will go a lot further.

Remember, this does not mean putting her down it means telling the truth infact the first girl thought i was honest due to neg hits basicly you can really make honesty work for you and if you ever hear the girl describe her self as honest, then you should realise that if you portray yourself as honest you will score A LOT of points with her for that!

but do not start calling her ugly, just say stuff like, actuly to tell you the truth i dont like those ear rings. but you dont want to neg hit you dont want her upset so after that say i prefered the ones you where wearing last time.

 

[trippychip]

Well i dunno but in my experience with a girl i was dating honesty was not wanted and it only made things worse. With friends im always honest, sometimes brutally. But with girls ive dated they dont want honesty they want to be complimented. i think for friendship honesty is great but for relationships its not. Like i dated a girl who was mormon and she asked me what i thought bout her religion. And i told her honestly that i thought it was total bull**** and that it should be considered a cult and that the things they teach youths is complete lies. Well she got defensive and it didnt go well after that. Now i wasnt so brutal as i make it seem but i made it known i dislike the religion.

 

[kiz]

this post made me cringe.

 

[Bigworm]

this guy doesnt even know how to spell much less talk about women in any intelligent way

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by trippychip
Well i dunno but in my experience with a girl i was dating honesty was not wanted and it only made things worse. With friends im always honest, sometimes brutally. But with girls ive dated they dont want honesty they want to be complimented. i think for friendship honesty is great but for relationships its not. Like i dated a girl who was mormon and she asked me what i thought bout her religion. And i told her honestly that i thought it was total bull**** and that it should be considered a cult and that the things they teach youths is complete lies. Well she got defensive and it didnt go well after that. Now i wasnt so brutal as i make it seem but i made it known i dislike the religion.

There's a difference between being honest and being tactless.

"What do you think of my religion?"
"It's a bull**** cult that teaches lies to little kids."

VS

"What do you think of my religion."
"You...probably don't want to hear what I have to say about it. Why, are you having second thoughts about it?"

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

kiz and bigworm, if you cant understand the importance of honesy, i really feel for you because you will be suprised how much girls value it. BUt of course you just want to make fun, rather then take the point in, oh well it really makes no diffrence to me if you ignore this, you will be the ones plagued with low intrest and short relationships.