"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Honesty poll: Why arent you getting laid.

Why I havent gotten laid lately.

  • I feel my time is better spent on other things

    Votes: 5 19.2%
  • I am too afraid to go out and approach girls.

    Votes: 7 26.9%
  • I am a virgin. (hence i shouldnt post in this thread)

    Votes: 7 26.9%
  • I just can't successfully close lately.

    Votes: 5 19.2%
  • I think i am better than women who wanted to sex me.

    Votes: 5 19.2%
  • I am getting laid in a long term relationship

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • I think i am unattractive at the moment (assuming you got laid before)

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • I am getting laid and am NOT in a relationship

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Total voters
    26

Oxide

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If you havent had sex in more than 3 months, decide why it has been this way. Then vote on the poll.


For me, i havent been laid in 3 months. Honestly, the girls who wanted me were not good enough, and the girls i wanted, well it didnt work out. I also didnt want to try at times, becuase i thought it would just waste my time.

I do believe a lot of times that saving time and just wacking off is a decent alternative. Who else is that way, or against it? Post your thoughts.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scorched

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I'm sure every guy on here knows at least one ugly girl he an go bang. Who wants that though...

Both the guy and girl want a challenge :)
In the long run the bang is so much better...
And you'll both come back for more!
 

Tomatoes

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I am having troulbe finding girls who are worth it that are "available". I have got laid in the last 3 months but they were HB 5 and HB 6. I would normally look at HB8 upwards but it was chrimbo and new year and every has to have abit of love then.
 

ObieJuan

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I cannot make myself happy...so how could I please a girl? After this realization I am now focusing on self-improvement. Get my life together by getting in shape, a better paying job and ultimately become a happier human being. The game isn't really that hard but if you aren't truely happy then women will see right through you. So it continues...as much as it would be nice to get laid (been little over a few months) it isn't really on my list of priorities.
 
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