Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Honesty poll: Why arent you getting laid.

Why I havent gotten laid lately.

  • I feel my time is better spent on other things

    Votes: 5 19.2%
  • I am too afraid to go out and approach girls.

    Votes: 7 26.9%
  • I am a virgin. (hence i shouldnt post in this thread)

    Votes: 7 26.9%
  • I just can't successfully close lately.

    Votes: 5 19.2%
  • I think i am better than women who wanted to sex me.

    Votes: 5 19.2%
  • I am getting laid in a long term relationship

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • I think i am unattractive at the moment (assuming you got laid before)

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • I am getting laid and am NOT in a relationship

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Total voters
    26

Oxide

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If you havent had sex in more than 3 months, decide why it has been this way. Then vote on the poll.


For me, i havent been laid in 3 months. Honestly, the girls who wanted me were not good enough, and the girls i wanted, well it didnt work out. I also didnt want to try at times, becuase i thought it would just waste my time.

I do believe a lot of times that saving time and just wacking off is a decent alternative. Who else is that way, or against it? Post your thoughts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scorched

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I'm sure every guy on here knows at least one ugly girl he an go bang. Who wants that though...

Both the guy and girl want a challenge :)
In the long run the bang is so much better...
And you'll both come back for more!
 

Tomatoes

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I am having troulbe finding girls who are worth it that are "available". I have got laid in the last 3 months but they were HB 5 and HB 6. I would normally look at HB8 upwards but it was chrimbo and new year and every has to have abit of love then.
 

ObieJuan

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I cannot make myself happy...so how could I please a girl? After this realization I am now focusing on self-improvement. Get my life together by getting in shape, a better paying job and ultimately become a happier human being. The game isn't really that hard but if you aren't truely happy then women will see right through you. So it continues...as much as it would be nice to get laid (been little over a few months) it isn't really on my list of priorities.
 
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