"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Honda Civic, Ford Focus, or Mitsubishi Lancer: What do chicks prefer?

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I am about to buy a 2009 and am wondering what car would improve my dating life the most.

I know cars don't really matter, but sometimes looks do.

So what do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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EvilAgenda

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A car does matter,,but not in the way you might think.
Get a car that makes YOU feel good (gives your confidence a boost),, and chicks will love it.

(Also,,girls see stick-shifting as a bad-boy trait. But truthfully,,you shouldn't give a damn about stick-shifting and about what others think of your car. If YOU love it,,you'll notice that others will love it too)


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LESSON on CARS and CLOTHING:

Intro
I laugh at people who spend so much money pimping up their cars trying to impress girls. (Trying to IMPRESS girls is already a wrong mindset). How will that help? So u r driving in a car,,a girl sees your car and loves it,,meanwhile she is driving too in her own car. She smiles at you,,you smile back. You even wave at each other, you do a Dr. Evil look, and she laughs and loves it. And then.... she drives off going her way, and you go your own. Way to close there,,champ.

Ok, So What Do I Do to Fix This?
How about we try a different approach. Instead of pimping up your car,,it's better to be pimping up yourself. That way it's not your CAR that gets noticed in instances where you can't benefit from, it's YOU who gets noticed in places to your benefit. Do something that makes YOU stand out - hair color/style, tatoos and piercings (personally I don't like that), CLOTHES CLOTHES CLOTHES and ACCESSORIES. If you carefully look at girls, u'll notice that they wear a lot of useless junk to spark attention,,like three huge friendship bracelets on one arm, a sparkly nose piercing, an ankle bracelet, sunglasses that are 5 inches tall, a shiny belt buckle with a playboy symbol, a shirt that says WORLD'S FIESTIEST B*TCH,, etc. And you LOVE it.

But What's the Point?
So do the SAME. Dress up! Get that huge Diesel watch that looks like a bracelet. If everyone's wearing jeans, go get Kenneth Cole black pants and a shirt to match it. YOU WILL STAND OUT. Getting attention is the FIRST step to being noticed. When girls notice you, you get +1 point towards attraction. Girls point at you giggling while talking about you with their girlfriends at the mall. They might even approach YOU and make a fiesty comment about your shirt that says "I'M THE ITALIAN YOUR MOTHER WARNED YOU ABOUT" to TEST you. To see if you are for real. Having a snappy comeback helps; with a clever response, you get another +1 point towards attraction.

End Result
And from there on, it escalates. Good clothes boost your self-esteem. They make you FEEL good about yourself. Sometimes, they make women approach YOU. And as a bonus, you two immediately have something interesting to talk about.
But remember, she does not want ur Omega watch, your Armani tux, and your Aston Martin, she wants a MAN who is underneath all these things.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone Much cooler

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Honda Civic, Ford Focus, or Mitsubishi Lancer are lame=you might be lame:girls are shallow and materialistic. If you buy a car for a girl(stupid) then make sure its a status symbol aka luxury or excitement. BMW, benz, lex, acura, nissan maximas, audi, infinity, caddys are all names girls equate status or ballerism.

I am more into sports cars and muscle cars. If its a muscle car it has to powerful sounding and looking=masculinity. buick grand national, buick Gsx, road runners, chargers.

for a sports car needs to equate sexy. 1990 and newer nissan 300zxs, 350zs, 3000gts, rx7, vettes you get the idea.
 

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Just for the record i have an olds intrigue and a buick grand nat. girls like neither of em, and when they tell me "I dont like buicks, i say fortunatly for me i dont give a fvck what you like!"
 

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just get a g37 and chicks will line up for u.
 

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the most successful guy with women i know drives a 1995 Mustang
 

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Don't buy a car based on how you think it'll make women feel towards you.

Just make sure you keep it clean inside and out, and keep in mind that crazy modifications don't give off a favourable impression.

If it's a Lexus, Audi, BMW, or Mercedes, they'll associate you with high status. Buying a Ferrari or Aston Martin, even more so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LoL. I used to be like you before. I bought a G35 when they first came out and spent all my money on it, hoping it will get me girls.

However, i didnt really get much *****.

Few years ago, i sold it and bought a ****ty beater Jeep and just fixed my game and i have had 10 times more poon than i did with my Infiniti.

So anyways, in conclusion, Dont get a car to get poon.
 

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be smart, go with something that gets good gas mileage.

Gas will be going up again in the near future. Be smart!

btw girls don't really care about what car you got. I got a 2004 Chevy Tracker and I do quite well!

comic_relief
 

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Buy the car for yourself, it's not going to help with women. I personally know guys who bought cars (I know one who bought an EVOX and had a bunch of guys show him props) to impress women and it simply did nothing.

An expensive car does demonstrate your ability to obtain resources, but you can't rely on just that, especially with women who don't know you.

Most nice cars will impress "guys" not girls.
 

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First off, a car isn't going to get you laid.

2nd off, all those cars you listed are ugly. Don't get a Japanese car, no one is going to be impressed by one. They're like digital camera's. Nice and fun, but impossible to be cool.

Get one of these (interior, ass). That's the sexiest car you can buy with normal money, hands down. The bad guys in the latest Bond movie drove them, which automaticly makes it even more cool. It's a real head turner. The styling is done by the same guy who did the Ferrari 250 and a handful of Mazerati's. The Italians know their sh*t about style. Japanese and American cars don't have style. Although American cars can be cool.

I've driven one and the handling is great. It feels like you're driving a race car. The steering is accurate and I threw it through corners with confidence. Even the lightest engine (1.8L) has enough power to make it feel sporty. That one will do 125 miles an hour. It truly is a blast to drive. The 1.9 and 2.2 are even more fun, but more expensive. There's also a V6 version, but that one, although pure pornography, is really expensive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon

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snowdog said:
First off, a car isn't going to get you laid. gly. Don't get a Japanese car, no one is going to be impressed by one. They're like digital camera's. Nice and fun, but impossible to be cool.

Get one of these (interior, ass). That's the sexiest car you can buy with normal money, hands down. The bad guys in the latest Bond movie drove them, which automaticly makes it even more cool. .
LOL not in USA hell no Alfa pulled out of USA a long time ago.. lame..

BMW M3 sedan is hot sex,.
http://automotiveaddicts.com/blog/uploaded_images/2009m3sedan-737656.jpg
 

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snowdog said:
2nd off, all those cars you listed are ugly. Don't get a Japanese car, no one is going to be impressed by one. They're like digital camera's. Nice and fun, but impossible to be cool.
Look at this japanese car: http://circuitmotorsports.net/images/Legacy gt.jpg, and its interior: http://z.about.com/d/cars/1/7/P/D/1/ag_08legacy_interior.jpg

This affordable hunk of junk even comes with multi-link suspension, heated everything, leather, and a nice turbo with plenty of pickup. What a solid built POS.


Definitely get the Alfa. Just go to your local MP, get a bill passed through the Senate changing safety requirements, and then import one from Italy.
 

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Buy a much better pre-owned car. A luxury thoroughbred with 100k mile that is properly maintained is just getting broken in... People are on cocaine about mileage and age of a car. Look up what kind of durability fine German and Japanese cars can offer. Hell, even a properly maintained American car will last forever. There are just a lot of stupid people out there that do not know what the fuvk they are doing and don't know how to drive so their cars fall apart.

If you find a way to bring your ride into a bar or club, let me know. In my hood you see an exotic every 5 minutes so it is tough to compete. I knew the pre-owned market for my current car in the entire region cold over quarters, and I got a great deal with lots of after market on it already.

Yep, Lexus IS and Nissan GT-R... the list goes on WRX STi's, Z's, G35/37's, Rx-7's - entirely unimpressive. If I could own a stable, it would be chalk rep'd with these whips.
 

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I DRIVE a 2003 PT cruiser because it's the car that I wanted. Don't choose your car to help you get chicks. I get plenty. I could pull up to a girls house in a horse and buggy and she'd get in. As a matter of fact,

she'd drive.
 

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I don't like any of the cars you mentioned, but the Lancer Evo will get you the most attention of the 3. And it will maul the other cars. To be honest though, I think muscle cars are the way to go. The amount of balls they have, especially for the era they were made in is unbelievable. I can't stand the sound of modern cars now.

Ford XY GT:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHuFxoo53vU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p89I7pQSMjA&feature=related

Ford XW GT:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O7s3NcJiidc&feature=related

Make sure you watch it in HQ
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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