"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Homossexuality on the Media

Paper Man

Don Juan
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I never worried about this, but having a little brother who just turned 8 I'm definitely preocupied. He just came to me asking what was a gay, after seeing one of the "good guys" at a teenage's series turning (or thinking is turning) into a gay.

I mean, it is hard to explain. How does one explains it without teaching him to hate on gay people but, at the same time, revealing that a man does not go the gay route.

Seriously, only know I am seeing this. Kids are being bombarded with "gays are good people!". While I have nothing against homossexuals, I don't want kids nowadays growing up thinking "Yeah, I'm gonna be gay. It's cool.", or just plain assuming sexual intimate relationships between men are just right... While, I repeat, I have no hate towards gay people, I'm concerned about young kids taking it as as normal as being with a girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Bat

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Easy. Just tell him whether he'd like to stick his wee-wee into another man's hole where his poop comes out of.

Plus, you could be the masculine, positive role model for the kid. He'll look up to you and see that being YOU is way cooler than some schmuck on tv.
 
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