"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm kind of curious what everyone thinks about it. Do you think that it's something that you are born with? Is it based on upbringing and/or life experience? Is homosexuality determined by a percentage (as in, a straight guy may have a 10% attraction toward men but a 90% attraction toward women, and for a gay guy it's the other way around) or is it simply one gender preference over another? If a guy finds it difficult to talk to another guy because he is struck by other guy's masculinity, great personality and good looks but at the same time doesn't want to have sex with him, does that mean anything? Is admiration a form of attraction? Is rating another guy's looks a sign of attraction? Is sexual desire the sole criterion is determining what category you fall under?

BTW, I consider myself straight (at least in the sense that I only want to have sexual relationships with women) but I'm just kind of throwing this topic out there to get some opinions.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wake up kid, The Matrix has you!!

Your language is perverse! It is not about "preferences" and men cannot have sex with men!! Men are born men - not a homo!! When was the last time you heard someone lift their newborn in the air and say "Look everyone, it's a Homo!!" :rolleyes: Do they sell cigars with a label that says, "It's a pervert"??
"Gay" means to be happy - jolly - the word you should be using is "Deviant" - Deviant of their genuine nature!
 

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I dont understand why any man would want to be gay and have another mans d!ck up their a$s...seriously....I dont think God made men to do that with each other, its just gross....id rather masterbate for the rest of my life then to even think about fvcking another man. That goes for the dudes in jail too that fvck their "b!tches" and claim to be "straight".

Especially the flaming gay guys, its funny because its just like a girl trapped in a guys body. And whats up with lesbians?...dont get me wrong, i love them and im all for it but whats the point of having a "girl" and a "butch" to play the role? might as well get with a real man then, why pretend?
 
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Yeah, "God" didn't intend for men to put their penises in other men's asses. I wonder what "God" thinks of putting your penis in women's asses, or mouths. Or masturbation. Or any sexual act that isn't 100% for procreation.

People don't choose sexual orientation. Quite frankly you'd have to be pretty stupid to think there is any decision involved. Btw there are some animals that can be gay, so it's not a phenomenon exclusive to humans.

Especially the flaming gay guys, its funny because its just like a girl trapped in a guys body.
That sometimes happens. Born with the body of a man but the mind of a woman, or vice versa.

Or the body of a 45 year old and the mind of a 5 year old mentally retarded child. Just ask Last Man Standing.
 

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Aside from ripping on young brother KEN, I find Master Bates post to be rather extraordinarily clear and concise. What the fvck does it matter if a guy takes c0cks? Look at it as they're not c0ckblocking you to get to women. You should be on your hands and knees, um, thanking them. A good portion of the gay community are extremely smart, erudite, well mannered, tolerant, well dressed and exquisitely conversational.

Don't follow the herd young KEN. We've talked about this already you and I.

As for LMS, well, there's nothing else to say.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Master Bates said:
Yeah, "God" didn't intend for men to put their penises in other men's asses. I wonder what "God" thinks of putting your penis in women's asses, or mouths. Or masturbation. Or any sexual act that isn't 100% for procreation.

People don't choose sexual orientation. Quite frankly you'd have to be pretty stupid to think there is any decision involved. Btw there are some animals that can be gay, so it's not a phenomenon exclusive to humans.


That sometimes happens. Born with the body of a man but the mind of a woman, or vice versa.

Or the body of a 45 year old and the mind of a 5 year old mentally retarded child. Just ask Last Man Standing.

Oh no no no man...i understand people are free to do whatever they want, i have no problem with them or what they do. I know people and have hung out of the gayest of gay dudes, they're kinda fun to hang out with as long as theyre not touching me in a homo way...lol.

But im just saying i dont see why they would want to be gay and not be with a beautiful woman thats all. Its hard for me to see that. Ive seen some gay dudes who are even really good looking and i think to myself "WTF? you can get girls!..." Oh well maybe its just me.
 

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Being 'gay' is determined by your genes, it's not a choice. I think that's how it works.
 

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I don't think it's a choice. No one chooses to be straight, there's a lot of talk on this sight stating that attraction is not a choice. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. I think when a lot of people hear "born gay" they get the wrong idea, as if the baby is already thinking of same sex opportunities. For instance straight people are not sexually attracted to the opposite sex until they begin to sexually mature, same for gay people for the same sex.

I don't know if you're familiar with the kinsey scale or any of his findings. According to his scale 1-5 (1 being exclusivley hetrosexual, 5 being exclusivley homosexual) the average hetrosexual person falls somewhere between a 1-2. And during a lifespan that scale can slide up and/or down.
 
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SinJester said:
Being 'gay' is determined by your genes, it's not a choice. I think that's how it works.
Yes, the scientists have found it - it's called "The Penis in the Anus" gene!! It makes you hump on other men asses - and makes you do other perversions!! So if the gene makes you do it then it must be ok! They also found a gene that makes one steal, and another gene that makes you kill, another gene that makes you lie --- hell, nothing is wrong!!! Do whatever you want - you can't help it - it's the genes!! Perversions are good!!! :rolleyes:

Evil has been made fair-seeming!!
 

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Do some research on it to save yourself from an ignorant opinion.

A simple google search would reveal this: Homosexuality

This is another topic that brings out the worst in people, and is just as bad as a racial discussion swaddled in ignorance.

For that reason I'm closing this down, sorry to the OP but your questions can be answered through research.

Here's something for you to chew on(no pun intended):

Gay men have, on an average, slightly longer and thicker penises than non-gay men.
Bogaert AF, Hershberger S (1999). "The relation between sexual orientation and penile size". Arch Sex Behav 28 (3): 213–21. doi:10.1023/A:1018780108597. PMID 10410197.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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