Homewreckers

[illmatic1005]

So i was with my girlfriend when the word 'homewrecker' poppued up. I didnt kno what it meant but she told me:

Homewrecker: a person who tries to ruin the relationship between 2 people for his/her own benefit.

Then my girlfriend told me about some guys that she knows who are homewreckers. They are trying to mess up me and my girlfriends relationship by saying stuff like

"I like you soo much, i bet you i can treat you better than your current boyfriend."
"After your done with him, wanna have some fun with me? Or we can start now if u want"
etc...

She said those type of people annoy her and i told her some girls i know that are 'homewreckers'

How does one handle people (guys specifically) trying to wreck your relationship? Guys that u kno u'll never see orr talk to too?

My guess it to work on DJ skills so your girl wont want to leave
What do u guys think?

 

[LostAndConfused]

Okay guys who blatantly say stuff that you mentioned or things that flat out tell the girl that she should be dating them and not her current boyfriend, are total AFCs. You really shouldn't worry yourself over those people. They aren't a threat to you, unless Tom Brady goes up to your girlfriend and says something like that, hah. Worrying about it just throws your game off and is very unattractive and unappealing to women.

And don't worry about legit-don juan homewreckers either. Honestly, attraction/interest is never permanent, just accept that its the way of life to change and become interested in others. Really, just focus on your own game, and as long as you keep the interest going with your girl, she won't leave you for a bf-destroyer.

 

[Hector]

yeah dont worry about it. try this out, when you see her next after you and her go and chat bring this up and tell her that you were thinking a little bit about this subject and that she shouldnt worry about them that they(those guys) wished they could be you and have such a loyal and great girlfriend like her and i dunno kiss her or something let her know that you're the man. if you want, cause i dont want to screw anything up and get blamed.

 

[everywomanshero]

Here's the weird thing: Why is she telling you this.

Dude I hate to say this, but IME when a girl mentions other guys and says she doesn't like them or what they say, it usually means it's turning her on. Don't be surprised if she actually likes one of those guys or ends up boning him. I could be wrong, but especially if it comes up more than once my experience is that she's getting boned or about to be boned.

The guys wouldn't be the problem though man, if she likes it, how is that their fault?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Here's the weird thing: Why is she telling you this.

Dude I hate to say this, but IME when a girl mentions other guys and says she doesn't like them or what they say, it usually means it's turning her on. Don't be surprised if she actually likes one of those guys or ends up boning him. I could be wrong, but especially if it comes up more than once my experience is that she's getting boned or about to be boned.

The guys wouldn't be the problem though man, if she likes it, how is that their fault?

Interesting. My girlfriend has mentioned to me some guys that hit on her. I just say oh really? and ignore it. Now, for her it's not the same guys but, just random guys trying to hit on her... You may have given me something to think about.