"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Homemade Bday Gifts

Oni

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So there is this girls bday coming up an i decided to mke her something. A little picture book starring her. Well, that's one down. But there are two other girls bday coming up too! I plan on making the other two girls a gift too. but i need ideas. any suggestion?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WC2

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I suggest you prepare yourself, for you're about to become an emotional tampon to one of these very lucky ladies.
 

mpimpin

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An emotional tampon to just ONE? Wow, if thats true his odds are pretty good doing this. My bet is to all THREE!!! :D
 

hi2u

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Wow, that's cute. Sounds like something one of their girlfriends would make them. These kinds of gifts are pointless unless this girl is already your BEST FRIEND or you're already in a WELL-established LTR and you've already demonstrated your alpha status. She MIGHT think it's cute and out of the ordinary in the later case.
 

Oni

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well, i thought its pretty funny. its not to be cute or anything. this is basically a scrap book where im going to put down all sort of things to make fun of her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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