"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My GF invited me to her homecoming. This is the first time I'm going as a guest to an other schools homecoming and had a date for one too. (i've always just danced with any girl I wanted to that did not have a date) So since this is my first time going with a date I had a few questions.

1. She showed me a picture of what her dress looks like. Am I supposed to match it?
2. I don't know what kind of dancing she likes to do. I'd personally rather not grind because I already know I'm not getting anything while im there and we are not going anywhere after. I don't want to go home with blue balls. How can I sort of lead on that we are not grinding? She will see her friends doing it and probably want to do it too.
3. Am I supposed to give her some space to dance with her female friends for a little bit?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. No, don't match,(colors) you wanna try to look just as good or better, but don't overdo it.
2. Aw, unless she tell you after the party you're not gettin, dont give up hope. And, for dances, just follow her lead.
3. When she wanna dance with her friends, dance with them to.

But overall, just have fun. You already got the girl, you haven't anything to prove.
 

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Boxer said:
My GF invited me to her homecoming. This is the first time I'm going as a guest to an other schools homecoming and had a date for one too. (i've always just danced with any girl I wanted to that did not have a date) So since this is my first time going with a date I had a few questions.

1. She showed me a picture of what her dress looks like. Am I supposed to match it?
2. I don't know what kind of dancing she likes to do. I'd personally rather not grind because I already know I'm not getting anything while im there and we are not going anywhere after. I don't want to go home with blue balls. How can I sort of lead on that we are not grinding? She will see her friends doing it and probably want to do it too.
3. Am I supposed to give her some space to dance with her female friends for a little bit?

Why wouldn't you want to grind? You're not gonna get blue balls from a girl grinding on you man. If you're worried about popping a bone, thats dumb man. I used to be too like freshman year and sophomore year. Now when they do it I'm proud of it and could care less. They are turned on by it man, don't be afraid of your sexuality.

If you dont grind she will think you are an androgynous (lacking gender) blob. You are a MAN. Man up and grind that ass! Besides if you don't grind with her you will never get to do ANYTHING with her EVER.

as far as your questions

1. Ya usually like your tie is good.
2. Explained above. But as far as dancing you lead and have fun, and she will too!
3. Sure go for it. Theres not "rule" that says she must dance with her friends. But go for it, go dance with other people too. Like your buds, show them your new break dancing/shopping cart move!
 

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Hey I respect freshmantank giving advice. But honestly its a little wack bro.


You never let a girl lead man, thats bible sh1t 101.

And I agree with this:
When she wanna dance with her friends, dance with them to.

But overall, just have fun. You already got the girl, you haven't anything to prove

But make sure if she wants to go dance with her friends you can go, just dont follow her around like a total creep. Understand?
 

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I will get blue balls grinding. I'm not scared of getting a boner. I do happen to know when my **** is getting rubbed by a girls but I will be heavily turned on and will start to pre-*** and by not ejaculating my balls will be upset and be very very painful. Happened last year. What will make this year any different?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And thanks for answering. Yea hopefully I can get some freshmantank! haha
 

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Happened last year. What will make this year any different?
That's like saying, 'I was an AFC last year, why will this year be any different..' You NEVER know until you try

You may not get some on homecoming, but grinding will help you in your quest to get some in the future. If you don't grind, she may think you are a pvssy, and then you will probably NOT have a chance of EVER getting some.
 

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AlexLefty said:
If you don't grind, she may think you are a pvssy, and then you will probably NOT have a chance of EVER getting some.

See Alex feels me on this one.

I pre-cvm when I grind too, its no big deal. Why cant you just go home and rub one after? And rub one before to "empty the pipes"
 

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SPEAK said:
I pre-cvm when I grind too, its no big deal. Why cant you just go home and rub one after? And rub one before to "empty the pipes"
Yea, I agree with SPEAK, if she wanna grind, then for heaven's sake, grind yo @** off.
 

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1. Yes, the guy's tie is supposed to match the girl's dress. Also, the coresage (if people in your area give coresages) should be the same color too.
2. This probably depends on where you're from. Where I grew up, everyone at dances was grinding except for the weirdos in the back. Whatever you do, just have some fun man! Let everything go an enjoy the night. If you're not having a good time, she'll notice and it'll kill her mood too. High school dances were a fun experience.
3. That depends on whether or not her friends have dates. It might suck a little if it's just you and her friends, but if that's the case, just do your best to entertain the ladies and talk to all of them. If they all have dates, there's nothing to worry about.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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