Homecoming

[Void]

Hello...

FYI**** Homecoming is a dance.

I asked a decent girl that I don't even like personality wise to homecoming because I thought it'd be an easy "yes."

Instead it was a confusing, mess of an answer. I still don't know what the hell it means.

She said "oh my goddd.....I didn't think I'd be going to homecoming so I invited my friend over and her boyfriend. I'm so sorrrrryyy."

My repsonse : "ehh..ok...so are you rejecting me : yes or no?"

Her: " No! ...I'm so sorry I planned that." *hugs* cries etc from her while I look at her in confusion.

She invites me to her little shindig...she's legitatemly having people over. It's not like my dog ate my ability to go to homecoming bs.

So I call her today and I say "Hey , tell me what's going on for homecoming. Do you want to go? Or do you want to hangout or not do anything together?"

Basically asking if she wants to see me or not. SO...she says *background noise* one second mom! then..."oh hey, No I don't want to go to homecoming cause I thought it was boring last year ....um come over if you want." Then we basically say goodbye.

I'm once again sitting there going "what the fvck is going on." Damn women and there confusing things.

At first it seemed like a genuine I already invited people over. But now she found homecoming boring last year? Yeah it was kind of boring but I believe if she WANTED to go with me she wouldn't have said that. And then the "uh come over if you want." What is that?!!? In the halls she was like "oh my godd sorry come over instead." This woman doesn't make sense.

My plan...

Go to her in the halls *hug*. Then straightforwardly say (Btw I'm very straightforward probably too much) "Hey. Look I want to go to homecoming. But if you actually WANT to hangout then we should."

In the last sentence I'm trying to say you know if she finds me attractive/likes me or whatever we'll hangout. I can't think of a better way to say that then that though. I just want to get at we'll be hooking up.

Feedback Please.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

well i understand why you don't like her personality wise.

she sounds high-maintenance and/or dramatic, etc

i bet shes waiting for somebody ele to ask her... and if he doesn't, she won't go.

ii'm just assuming.


but sure, ask her to hangout, she probably would... it's not like she doesn't invite you over.

 

[Nobody]

Random: my homecoming is $65. WTF? I doubt I'm going to it.

 

[RestoretheROAR84]

If you don't like her personality and only wanted an easy date to homecoming, why are you worried about hanging out with her? You should stop and think about it for a minute before making any major move.

 

[Void]

well i understand why you don't like her personality wise.

she sounds high-maintenance and/or dramatic, etc

i bet shes waiting for somebody ele to ask her... and if he doesn't, she won't go.

ii'm just assuming.


but sure, ask her to hangout, she probably would... it's not like she doesn't invite you over.

She's inviting me over the day of homecoming. And yea your right about her being high maintenance/ weird. IF SHE IS waiting for somebody else to ask her and she ends up going to homecoming, which I doubt because get on her about it if she lied to me. And she knows I won't take any **** from her.

I'm just wondering do you think she would invite me over the way she did if she didnt want to hook up??

I'm still confused about that...

ROAR- The reason I would want to hangout with her on homecoming day is because I don't want to go just go hangout with guys on the day of homecoming. And I need some pvssy to make me feel better. I'm just being honest.

 

[DrDiesel07]

Why don't you just say fvck her and ask someone else...u said urself you dont really even like her personality wise...just find a better chick and ask her

 

[Bunk 040]

Man yall be lying, dude she don't wanna go with you....mess with somebody that's feeling you. Homecoming aint nothing, I go with my niggas when I go and dance on other girls.