"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Homecoming Dance is tonight

PocketGnome

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And I still don't know if I'm gonna go. I don't have a date, I have nothing to wear, and I fail at dancing. Should I go?


I asked one girl, she said no.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shezz said:
I dont know whats funnier - your username or this question.

SargeOn...

Lmao, this seems like a reoccuring theme here in the past few days.

Only go if you can have a good time with or without girls. Maybe go pregraming with a few friends beforehand?
 

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Alright, I found something to wear, so I'm gonna go. My only problem is the girl I asked. I told her last night that I wasn't sure if I was going to the dance, and she IM's me today. Here's the convo. (part of it anyway)


Her: so did u decided if u were goin or not
Me: not yet
Me: I'm running out of time
Her: ya u r
Me: are you gonna go?
Her:: yuppers
Me: I've got absolutely nothing to wear though, And I have 3 dollars in my wallet :p
Her: lmao
Me: Maybe I'll show up with a t-shirt and some jeans on :p
Her :that works 2
Me: I'll probably go, all my friends are going....
Her: c so then go
Me: lol.... do you want me to go?
Her: i'm goin with friends... but you should def. come
Me: Sounds like that's what I'm gonna be doing, since my friends are going
Her: sweetnes, see you there!

Then we had some more conversation about some other crap, but that was the only stuff about homecoming, and I still don't have a clue about her. I'm regretting not asking her to save me a dance, but oh well, maybe I can ask her for one tonight.

So, what should I do about this girl? Talk to her tonight, or just ignore her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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