"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Home-Workouts

Gunner26

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So the gym I have been hitting up closed last month. Since then I haven't joined a new gym. My reasoning being that all the other local gyms rope you into a 12 month contract and I am moving to Australia for a year in October so can't really commit.

I still go to the gym once/twice a week I just pay as I go now and have been going with a friend who is training to become a personal trainer.

However I have started doing some home-workouts. There's a steel girder in my garage which is perfectly placed in the wall to let me do pull-ups/chin-ups, plus I got myself a yoga matt to provide some comfort for push-ups ab work etc. i do all my home-workouts in the garden.

Just wondering if any of you guys have tried this sort of program out before and if it helped you? That you go to the gym once or twice a week and then do 3/4 home workouts a week all bodyweight exercises.

I ask because I am still trying to put on weight. I'm only 150 pounds at 5"10 and this is the most I've ever weighed. I get the feeling that this type of exercise isn't really going to help me make the gains, no matter how much of a calorie surplus I have.

Thanks in advance for any-insight.

Gunner
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marmel75

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Get an army duffelbag and some sand, and make your own sandbag. Search online for some of those workouts--they are brutal.

You can do bodyweight exercises, they can be effective as long as you do them intensely enough...think circuits with little to no rest in between
 

blind_one

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I love me a good chest super set at home. Start with pushups with slow controlled form and do them as many times as you can before slowing down / strugling. Then immediately lay on your back and start doing dumbbell flys with slow controlled form and as before, when you start struggling ,switch, this time to dumbbell press. Nice and slow all the way

You are doing this with lower weight then you do regularly, 3-5 minute rest between sets and you do 4-8 of them.

This is killer I assure you.
 

Gunner26

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I'll be honest with you guys here, the only equipment I have is a pull-up bar and a roll-matt. I don't have any dumbells, sandbags or anything like that. My home-workouts are strictly bodyweight. I'm talking burpees, squat jump burpees, press-ups, pull-ups that sort of stuff.

Blind_one I do a variation of that routine when I do hit chest day at the gym, except I start with the dumbell press and finish with press-ups. I love a good super-set.

Marmel that's what I thought, real intense bodyweight routines. Today I did 50 burpees, 50 squats 50 sit ups. Then 40 of each, 30 of each etc down to 10 of each as fast as I could. It was tough.

Cheers boys

Gunner
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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