"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Home-Schooled Girls

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crissco

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Never dated, but funny you mentioned this..This morning actually, I hit up a girl on OkCupid who was home schooled..20 y/o..hot blond girl..

I never run my game like this but i just said **** it....This is what she messaged me after i said i dont give out my number "JESUS CHRIST I'm not playing games or trying to play hard to get I just want to talk to you with out you having immediate access to my phone number. I want my privacy and you should respect that"

I gave her my number..I played normal ****y funny...She said "Are you going to keep being a douche or are we going to try here"

I said "Wellllll" - Joking of course like i always do

End Result - She hung up on me and never spoke again.

Cant judge anything by that at all, but she was very aggressive and fesity..Wouldnt be surprised if she was a virgin or sexually frustrated.
 

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Mostly SERIOUS Christians. Be a good wife, but you aren't tapping it until after the wedding. Since they didn't hang around a bunch of stupid teen aged girls in high school, they aren't LIKE them. IF they get to 18 raised without a bunch of the common "girl ****", They are probably set for life in their ways. So you don't get away with gaming them like the average idiot girl.... MOM was their teacher and confidant....so she will LIKELY be more mature than her age indicates.

Of course, you can always find the rebel.... but as a whole
 

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I never dated her, but I know her well.... she's a cousin's kid and she's like talking to a 40 yr old who has her sh1t together. You can have an intelligent conversation for 3 or 4 hours.... IF you are intelligent enough to interest her...
 

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Dear Desdinova,
Yeah I married one...lived 7 miles from her closest neighbour her Uncle...72 miles to one Town,on a good Road...and 60 miles to one in the other direction but at the time you needed a Land Rover to get over the Range...Dingo Country...She did school by School of the Air,and correspondence...Different?Are you Kidding...Chalk and Cheese...I fell in love with the Wild Bush Country,the Huntin',Shootin' Fishin'...The remarkable Settlers up there...Clint Eastwood would understand...Problems Soo many!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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