Home problem= negative DJ skills

[illmatic1005]

DJ SKILLS GOING DOWN


ok so my dad has a girlfriend he had for 7 years and accidentally had a baby with(baby is 5 years old now)...
for these past 3 or 4 years she has been yelling at me, throwing chairs out the house, blaming me on everything bad that happens and saying i have no social life and am a loser who has a f***** up mother(shes a good mother..i just dont live with her)(she doesnt know im voted most sociable in final years of high school too).....my dad barely likes her because she yells and complains about me, my sister,my father and everything in the house so damn much but he doesnt want to leave her becuase his daughter will end up becoming a screw-up like the rest of her family and he doesnt want that...he also like to see his daugher everyday too....

i wanna know what i can do about this maniac of a women?...for the past 3 years always saying my mother is this and that and im a waste of life(i dont talk to her much and dont even deserve this..trust me)

i cant get her to move out and everything she is saying is having a negative impact on my DJ skills.

what would you DJ's do to fix this problem?

- p.s theres no exxagerration, its all true
i cant even talkk to her after the big fight between us yesterday...

 

[ethnomethodologist]

You need a mediator BAD!

Dr. Phil style I gotta watch one of shows one day. Don't make it so Jerry Springer, she's one of those kinds of people... Make it calm and collected. Dj with confidence, don't test your patience.

It's good that you are thinking about it, not many would. They'd start throwing stuff back and being violent. She's definitely got problems, and your dad is probably the best to know what they are.

Want a good mediator? Trust and old family. If you talk from the standpoint of understanding her prblems, than anybody else there is just going to get in the way. Like having a wing in the room while your screwing an HB9, he's only going to make her nervous.

What you've got to do is make a plan, yeah not very badboyish, but it's the only option if you want this to turn into a successful LTR... go read a few posts of MightyMates, read deep, his stuff is hard to comprehend. He does have the best advice on this board about maintaining a successful LTR when actual speech isn't an option. Than go and read some posts from Desdinova and Penkitten, they've got the Nice LTR's going down...

Damage control is what you need here

 

[T Money]

Talk to your dad. Tell him your situation.

Either that or man-up and talk right back to her. Tell her that if she used a rubber, she wouldn't have an accident of a kid (I know that's fvcked up to your little sister AND your dad, but it will keep her in check). I dunno man, this sounds like a crazy b!tch, I would say move out if nothing else.