"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Home Bed Advantage" - Your opinions.

The_Wolf

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Let's have a mature discussion about the home bed advantage.

Simple questions:

Where do you feel more comfortable with a girl (not for just hanging out, but for sex etc..), Do you prefer it at your place? or much rather do it over her?

Discuss some Pros and Cons..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sav

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doing it in unconventional places rocks... adds that extra something...
 

Fortunate_Juan

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I like home bed because I don't have to leave in the middle of the night. But the unconventional places thing is good too, I think home bed should be a more broad term of home field.
 
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