"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Holy **** woman confesses her love for me?

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A girl I dated a few time whom I have known for a long time told me she loves me today and has for over ten years???

Although when I gave her a shot all she did was play games with me, to the point where I decided NC was the answer. I had not seen or spoken to her for over 4 months now, I saw her tonight and she started in on me dancing and **** and then she dropped that bomb?

I tried to talk to her about it but she just went on about how I didn't feel the same way. Blah blah whatever, she was a tad inebriated. I feel awful, a woman in tears tends to have that effect on me, however I know I did absolutely nothing wrong here, I've never even slept with her.

Anyways this is the first time I have ever had a woman say such things to me, Whats a fella to do? I was so shocked I was pretty much at a loss for words.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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similar thing happened to me as well, girl I really liked and wanted, on one of the go outs with some friends she told her friend that she really loved me ... I turn around and ask her "you love me?" and shes like yes I really do ... that didn't change the fact that she rarely had time to go out with me and never called, got tired of that and didn't contact her for over an year now, she never called to wonder why.
 
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Confessions can be flattering but always remember a girl who truly loves you will MAKE herself available to you consistently, and not allow room in her life for other men.
 
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Oh yeah she is a tad crazy no doubt she is playing games, but I needed to talk about it and hear some other experiences.

She LJBF'd me today, hopefully that is the end of it lol
 
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NC is the way to go with this one. She's trying to entangle you in her drama and I see no possible benefit for you to play along.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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never believe what a woman says until her actions back it up, women have told me they loved me and did the total opposite

and like you said the chick was tipsy, a lot of chicks once they get sober take back things they said or blame it on the liquor

I would stay nc with this chick
 
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Hi HalfAddict,
If I were you I will leave her and will try online dating service to search for better girl than her. Online dating services allow singles to meet and communicate over the Internet, in order to facilitate a lovely connection.
 
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I've never even slept with her.
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well then she is just spewing nonsense, girls dont fall in love with guys the've never banged.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's an Ice Princess. She's hot one minute and cold the next.

Her confession and subsequent ljbf only confirms this. She's just continuing her previous behavior. One chance per woman per lifetime.
 
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A girl I dated a few time whom I have known for a long time told me she loves me today and has for over ten years???
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... and you believed it?
 
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A woman who tells me she loves me? I think something's wrong with that picture. Believe the actions, not the words. IOI's don't mean sh*t.

Case closed.
 
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