Holy shiat! Somebody slap me!! Anyone ever regretted a decision they made?

[Centaurion]

There was this hot girl (K) back in HS (junior high I think, we were both 16) that had a huge ass crush on me, but being the jerk I was (still am) I blatantly ignored her and kept neg-hitting her like crazy. I would hook up with every girl I could find except her.

I've lost count of all the times she dropped sexual hints, and one time she blatantly asked me if I would like to take her virginity. She wrote her phone number on all of my books, and would stuff notes with her number into my jacket pockets. It didn't go one day without her hugging me, giving me compliments or telling me how much she wanted me.

But what did I do? ABSO-FVCKING-LUTLY NOTHING!!! After two years of blowing her off she lost interest and we lost contact as we both got accepted to different Senior High Schools. The last time I heard about her was when I was in the Army, she had apparently met this guy in Senior HS and started dating him - to my knowledge they are still together (been over 6 years now).

Fast forward to today.

Some long forgotten mutual chick friend from our HS-days emailed me today and gave me the scoop on K. It turns out that she is a high roller now, she emailed me pics of K together with a pretty well known female pop-star, and get this TYRA FVCKING BANKS and the winner of Americans Next Top Model-contest (forgot her name). They (K and her bf) is now living a jet-setter life, rubbing shoulders with the rich and famous - it could all have been MINE!!!

And I'm not lying when I'm saying this, she holds her own against Tyra Banks. K was just drop dead gorgeous.

What pisses me off is that I could have been that guy. It could have been me who would have threesomes with Tyra Banks and K.

I'm pissed off right now.

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Anybody else ditched a girl that turned out to be THE catch a couple of years down the road?

 

[pooparu]

No just you make mistakes, everyone else up here is perfect, sorry.

 

[Weak_Game]

Dated a rich girl who i couldnt stand her wanting to be a stripper. It tore me and the relationship apart. I left her. We even almost had a kid she got pregnent with me and we aborted. She wanted to get married i didnt wanna settle.

Her father died a year after we broke up, leaving her with Millions and tons of real estate. 2 mil beach house on the jersey shore. Cars, and now she quit stripping. And does porn.

Now that i think about it, i would have tollerated her behavior. Because i would have been RICH BI+CH!!!!! One of the few relationships i regret Nexting.

 

[sorin]

Learn to live with responsability.
YOU are responsible for everything you do or DON'T do...

Learn from your mistakes, that's the only way to get good at anything in life. Be willing to make mistakes, take risks and chances...

That's alright I'm sure you can re-create lost opportunities with other women... it all comes down how much you really want something...

If you want it, you can do it!

 

[qweretyuiopas]

lol pooparu

damm Centaurion that sucks ass, I made some regretable stuff with chicks but nothing that bad. When I was in 2nd or 3rd grade there was this chick named cindy, who I had my first crush on, she liked me as well, we did the usual acting like we didnt like each other. As time went on (i knew her for a few years) we got more playful and all kinds of stuff, but i didnt do anything, we got split up to different schools and I never heard from her again. cut to 2004 my h.s. graduation year. A friend of mine in high school (ironically he was a bully of mine back at the same school me and cindy went to) he threw a party like a week before graduation, he brought the year book from the old school a week before and showed it to me and others (I was a cute little kid all the girls liked me too bad i was a wimp). Anyway he said he still talked to cindy and he would invite her to the party next week, he knew I liked her back then and he said she looked alot better now. He said after I left the school, cindy became the most popular chick in school and had all the guys all over her.

Ok now its the day of the party, Im relaxed for the first hr or so, but then he tells me she is on the way so I start feeling as nervous as used to be around her, he told her I was gonna be there. She comes into the guys house, fuc kin bangin body and cute as hell. She remembers me right away (even though we hadnt seen each other in about 9 years) she remembered all kinds of things about me, even remembered my brother, she was real flirty and other guys were like here she is qwerety remember how u used to like her blah blah, that made me super nervous. Guess what I fuc king wimped out again and didnt make any moves on her, she was just as pretty and nice as I remember her and she was single, but I did nothing. On graduation day the guy told me she started dating another guy from the party. She was my first love that I never forgot and I let her get away again. I thought about her alot like 2 weeks after that.

To this day I still think about it (not alot but seeing this thread triggered it) she is one of those women that Im always gonna be nervous around. I have dated since, but I vowed to myself if I ever saw her again I would never let her go, no matter how nervous I am. You guys can scream oneitis all you want to, ive dated since so she isnt holding me back but when u have liked a chick for over a decade and you are only 19 yrs old, its hard not to wanna be with her and be jealous of any guy with her now. Im different around her than I am with other chicks, I tease and such around other chicks alot, I even got a girl now, but dammit i will not let her get away again. She is actually part of my motivation to change myself, by coming here and mysterys forum and learning up on stuff, to fix up my inner game and body, so she wont get away again. I have a feeling fate will bring us together again and I wanna be ready when it does. Yeah this "oneitis" is a motivating factor for me to better myself as a man, and f uck you guys who say thats a bad thing.

 

[pooparu]

Alright, alright I did make maybe just ONE.

Back in like 7th grade, I had moved to this town and there was some girl, she was pretty hot, but I didn't say anything. Anyway back then I guess I was just a natural DJ and **** cuz I mean a ton of girls liked me, whatever. So one day I'm in art class making a horrible drawing (damn I still remember that damn O keefe flower or whatever the **** they call it), and I get my first ever love letter. It read something like

Dear Pooparu,
I just wanted to let you know that I, *her full name, alone with her middle name that I still haven't forgotten* like you.

And she proceeded to tell me how great I was.

So anyway her friend came up to me and she was like what do you think? I didn't even know how to answer that because it wasn't like she asked me out, she just declared her interest so I was like, "Erm....I didn't read it yet". So anyway that day I took it hom enad like read it alot , I think I even showed my mom, and then put it in between like a stereo to hide it (lmao), adn then the next day I avoided her friend alot, and then I said I read it eventually and she was like well? I had been asking around and back then I actually cared what others thought and they said she was crazy (which I don't think they meant that bad, but I took it to mean bad in retrospect), so I was like, "Well I dunno". Anyway lost interest. Then like all the guys started liking her, and then I ended up saying I liked her or something, and nothing ended up happening.

Later on in like the year or the next year she somehow got me to even sing (she had my balllzzzz) and on like my 13th birthday when we went to six flags me and my friend liked her and she ended up telling both of us we were cute but she didn't wanna get in between us or sometin (I dunno some excuse).

LMAO those were the days...