"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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holy hell is this real?

morepoonplease

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It all makes sense to me now... when i was coming up in grade school there was this one girl who i admired, she was beautiful and i wanted her... that same girl made fun of me constantly and turned other girls against me... it was because of this i never had a g/f in school... i never wanted to ask any girls out because 1, i was picky and 2 i was intimidated by the hot ones. All of the lays i got in highschool were because of alcohol, although i lost my virginity while sober to a girl who was infatuated with me. Now here i am in college, a horny bastard and not getting laid as much as i did in highschool mainly because i don't drink anymore... i guess this article tells me that I'm only holding myself back... i can't wait to get ahold of my balls!

here it is not sure if anyone here has come across this: http://www.fastseduction.com/alpha/008-YouBecameaSocialCowardbyAccident.shtml
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah some are lucky some are not,but
the bottom line is.. we are pvssies because we did not get beack on the bike when we had fallen. Casanova is maybe defacto bigger pvssy because he never fell down but it does not concern me.

I think much more powerful is to admit "I was a pvssy" than to make excuses however relevant. When you are true to yourself, than you can make progress.

And another interesting thing is that only really brave people admit cowardness and mean it.

Admit that you were scared little bunny back then and move on.
 

Dubh

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your journey has just begun my friend now its time to take ur blue pill look up the dj bible and read now ur looking down the rabbit hole

most enlighting book I ever read
Here is the link to : DAVID X EBOOK http://www.mediafire.com/?btvytu1jjgm# If the link ever stops working due to time lapses , just google ''david x ebook'' and search for a suitable link.
 
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