Holy F'n ****

[shooter]

My friend is a wreck

Him and his girl (who he has been dating for two years) were having a baby, so he thought.

Well last night he is in the delivery room with his girlI am waiting in the waiting room, and all of a sudden he comes storming out, and sys "Let's Go"

I follow him confuse and all he said was that "f'n *****, that f'n *****" and he went silent for about 10 minutes. I repedatly asked him what was wrong, but to no avail. I could tell he was mad.

He drove to a bar, we went inside and had a few drinks, then he hit me with it

He told me that the child his girl just had was half black. Now he is white and so is she. He also told me that he had suspisions that she was messing around with this black guy who lives in their appartment building, but she always denies it.

Dude is furious and I think he may do something rash

How do I help him?

 

[tihash]

Does she have money? Probably not, but if so sue her for intentional infliction of emotional distress.

Anyhow, he needs to dump her stank @ss immediately.

 

[future dj]

tell him to forget her, pack his bags move out....not much else to do

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

i think he needs some time alone right now. After hes got over this girl, then introduce him to one of you girl(who you do not want but keeps for reserve), that should ease things up for him. Poor bastd, why didnt you tell him about this site??

 

[flippinfreak]

Tell him to bring a voice recorder the next time he talks to her...

I want to hear what she says as an excuse

 

[spider_007]

i'm not sure, but i've heard that sometimes babys can be be born lighter colour then their parents. I don't know if it can be the other way around too (maybe someone who knows more about this can let us in on it)

 

[italostud]

Tell him to celebrate not being chained to a lying manipulator for the next 18 years! Best thing that ever happened to him.

 

[dirtyvibe]

i'm not sure, but i've heard that sometimes babys can be be born lighter colour then their parents. I don't know if it can be the other way around too (maybe someone who knows more about this can let us in on it)

yeah, but its pretty rare. the kids prolly 1/2 black

 

[22proto]

i think it's pretty important that your buddy does paternity test
cuz if he does not do one, he's basically accepting responsibility for the child's welfare whether it's his or not under state or federal law
at least according to this website

http://fathersforlife.org/advice_to_men.htm

you don't want to get stuck w/ child support for a kid that's not even yours

if i was that guy id probably move the hell out of the apartment ASAP, so he doesn't even have to see woman & the black guy and possibly do something violent.

 

[Bvbidd]

Wow.. all he did was walk out swearing?

That guy has some control.

 

[flippinfreak]

Wow.. all he did was walk out swearing?

That guy has some control.

Go find the baby's daddy?

 

[frivolousz21]

Go find the baby's daddy?

I would of been throwing chairs..and had to be restrained from beating the **** out her.

honestly..how did he control himself enuf to do that.

 

[shooter]

No, there is no denying it the child is half black, besides she admitted to banging the guy a few times.

Part that gets me is the girl lets this black guy she barely knows go bareback and nut in her, and she makes her BF of two years wear condoms. WTF is that about.

I guess according to her, they (her and the black guy) had sex about a dozen times for a week or so, and that was the end of their fling.

Thing is she must have known the whole time she got knocked up by the other guy, and just strung my friend along.

He did throw her things out and told her not to come back to his place when she gets out of the hospitol.

I mean there you go another cheating girl who is going to ruin the life of an innocent child.

Thankfully she was messin around witrh a black guy, if the dude she was screwing was white, my friend would have never known

 

[aftershock]

Tell him to celebrate not being chained to a lying manipulator for the next 18 years! Best thing that ever happened to him.

This guys got it spot on. In the cold light of day its a very good thing.

 

[johnmich]

I suppose it depends on the attitude of your mate. How old is he? and did he want to be a dad and was he looking forward to it?
If he did want a child then thats f*ckin well bad for him but if she got preggers by accident and he isnt ready, then it isnt as bad.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I wish the best for your friend. I hope...well i dunno what to hope for the chick. Is the black dude still around? Man if that happened to me i dunno what i would do. I kinda think it was cool how your buddy just walked outa there like that. I hope he never says a word to her again.

 

[Friendly Otter]

I know what I would do, the only honorable thing, but hey, some things you can't write unless you want to get banned.

So she cheats, knows who the father is since her bf always wears a condom, and she says nothing. I guess the black guy is going to step up to his responsibility now? LOL

 

[insanity]

wow your friend took that calmly. i would have taking the amblica cord and strangled the mother with it.

women these days. if their going to cheat, then at least use a condom. that's just stupidity at it's best. as much as i'd like to see the mother suffer and the real father not step up for his mistake, it's not the childs fault that it's mother was a skank.