"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MTV now has a new show, I do not know what its called, but its about hot chicks making AFC's go do cold approaches to see who gets the most #s.........WOW talk about some MUST SEE TV!@!! lol

im pretty sure this show was made just for members of sosuave LOL

by the way, ive only seen it for 5 minutes, but the best looking guy has gotten the most numbers so far :)

THIS SHOW ROCKS!! MTV ROCKS!!!! AFCS TRYING TO GET NUMBERS FROM COLD APPROACHING!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OH....its just Beauty and the Geek........but i dunno thye just did a challenge to see who could get the most #s, either way, who ever has seen it, would know what i was talking about!
 

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WOW!! *****, ***** and ******. LOOKS WILL GET U LAID ***** 89 TIMES LIKE ME *****. *******. GIVE ME ******* MORE ******* ATTENTION!!!! AFC ****** *****ES!!!!! *****!!!!!!


Sorry mate, immature I know. But you really are complete bellend.
 

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stfu up snob........u dont why u dont get pvssy??? because u are too uptight

simple as that.

i was simply excited cuz i thought i just found a tv show about AFCs cold approaching, so i shared with everyone

l777 - shut up uptight mouth UP
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
u dont why u dont get pvssy

l777 - shut up uptight mouth UP
Sorry, I meant a complete, ILLITERATE bellend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Beauty and The Geek. Man, that's two years old.
Get with the times skip, it was a shiitty series, completely scripted out.
 

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yo i wanted to see that show but i never did bro!
 

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Docs - i just saw it on MTV today, i didnt even know that that was the show, i thought it was some new mtv cold approach show, which woulda been REALLY cool
 

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No....it came out on the WB11 (now the CW) about two years ago. It's completely scripted, and how the hot guys gets the numbers while the dorks don't, exactly. Thats why you'll see the personalities of the people come out, and how they start to hate/like each other. Scripted hooking tis is.

Good for a laugh, but for a realistic representation, nope.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Idle One said:
didn't that show fail miserably?
yes, like this thread.

comic_relief
 

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This is why things the way they are...because people watch MTV.
 

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L777 said:
WOW!! *****, ***** and ******. LOOKS WILL GET U LAID ***** 89 TIMES LIKE ME *****. *******. GIVE ME ******* MORE ******* ATTENTION!!!! AFC ****** *****ES!!!!! *****!!!!!!


Sorry mate, immature I know. But you really are complete bellend.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! :rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Beauty and the Geek does not deserve this thread title.

Although it is an interesting show to watch. However after all they go through during the show, it's kind of ridiculous how they choose the winner, with little retarded questions like that.
 
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I saw this - while the original poster is wrong about there being a new show about this, I noticed on MTV there are different situations and clips that people can really learn from. This one for example, which was a challenge who could get the most #s from cold approaching in one hour, and the winner would not be eliminated or something. And guess what?? The 4 guys doing it, one of them got THIRTEEN #s off of cold approaching. Another one got more than 10 #s as well. Only the really ugly geek got nothing.......except, EVEN HE GOT 2 NUMBERS!

what does this prove?? if anyone saw this particular episode, they would notice how easy it is to cold approach and get many numbers from random cute chicks IF ONE ONLY TRIES. These guys were made to try, the one who got 13 numbers probably felt the most pressure to win, and he just ****ing went up to girl after girl after girl and did it.

So, anyone can cold approach if they just try. Good thread.
 

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i dunno what season u guys are talking about. but the winner of the first season, the guy who got 13 phone numbers told most of the girls he is gay. kinda whack.
 
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LOL yea, and the guy who came in second did natural approaches and got about 10 numbers from what I remember. The point is (and there is a very good point), is that cold approaching is an easy way to get numbers if one just tries hard enough
 

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Whats the difference between normal approach and cold approach?
Why is it COLD?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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