"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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holy **** didnt think she would

ye yeah

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hey guys...

i had a big fight with a physco girl i used to like,she is a ***** and over reacts at everything,and said to me " dont talk to me again" so i said "if you REALLY dont wanna talk to me again,delete me off myspace and msn" and she DID

holy shyt,i cant back down now can i? i wanna be friends with her,but i didnt think she would do that :S

what do i do now?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jack McCrack

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Looks like you bit off more than you could chew there.

You made a suggestion, she took you up on it, and now you can't handle.

I suggest an exit strategy.
 

KillaCam

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You gave her an offer, she took it up. Now you move on.

Question, if she's so psycho and doesn't want to talk to you, why do you want to be "friends" with her? Have you not let go of past feelings? Or do you just feel the need to have a damaging influence in your life
 

guitarslinger

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You should probably go around to her house and wait in the bushes until she comes outside, doesn't matter how long it takes. Then when she goes for a walk, follow her, but don't let her see you. Take lots of pictures of her when she's at work etc, and put them on your wall and jac it to them as many times as you can before you go to sleep. Make sure you call her cell and leave like 32 creepy phone messages, ranging from nice, to needy, to desperate, to heavy breathing.

Hold on, actually don't do any of those things. Chicks do stuff like that to see how far you will go to get them back. She will probably add you back in like a week or so when she realizes that you're not going to do anything. If she doesn't, I guess she doesn't value your friendship enougth to work through some insignificant bulls**t, sorry buddy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ace_McGregor

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Why do you want this ***** if she's a psycho?

Just sit and wait. Don't make any contact, no matter how long it takes. She'll creep back around when she's ready. In the meantime go find some QUALITY women.
 
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