"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Holy ****, caught cheating

italostud

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Interesting theories in the last two posts. While I agree it's possible, I doubt she did. From what I can see she has a good head on her shoulders. We have a strong relationship and I think we can get through this. And just because a girl takes you back, it doesn't automatically mean that she cheated on you.

Once again, thanks for all the replies, even the flames. I've just been totally honest with her and spoken to her from the heart. It's going to take some time and some work on my part, but I really do want this to work. So I'm willing to put in the time to try to heal this relationship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cactus3178

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So officially, what was the reason you gave her for cheating? Just curious.
 
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