"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Holly Madison (one of hef's playboy girls)

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This article popped up on facebook: http://www.buzzfeed.com/kateaurthur/holly-madison-burns-it-down?bffb&utm_term=4ldqpgp#.kxoy4Y0KG

What I found most interesting was something she said during the interview:

“I call myself a born-again feminist,” she said. “I can’t call myself a feminist, or people are going to attack me for that, like, How can you be a feminist, you lived with Hugh Hefner! But I feel like there comes a time in every woman’s life when you have to become a feminist.”

What a coincidence that she turns 35, her looks are fading, and now she chooses to become a feminist?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Article would be better titled Ponderings of a Silly Tw@t

subtitle "Being a basal prostitute isn't all that great"
 

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AIUI, she wanted Hef to marry her, but he declined, so now she has become a "re-virgin" to get a good beta man.
 

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MatureDJ said:
AIUI, she wanted Hef to marry her, but he declined, so now she has become a "re-virgin" to get a good beta man.
She's married with kids...
 

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I knew a guy in college who had a former gf who ended up being a playmate while he was away at school. He was my drinking buddy's next door neighbor. I did ok with girls in college, but that guy got laid like a mother fvcking rock star. I would be sitting at my friend's place and see the girls come and go. I remember he drove a ford escort wagon and was poor as hell.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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