"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Holly Madison (one of hef's playboy girls)

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This article popped up on facebook: http://www.buzzfeed.com/kateaurthur/holly-madison-burns-it-down?bffb&utm_term=4ldqpgp#.kxoy4Y0KG

What I found most interesting was something she said during the interview:

“I call myself a born-again feminist,” she said. “I can’t call myself a feminist, or people are going to attack me for that, like, How can you be a feminist, you lived with Hugh Hefner! But I feel like there comes a time in every woman’s life when you have to become a feminist.”

What a coincidence that she turns 35, her looks are fading, and now she chooses to become a feminist?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Article would be better titled Ponderings of a Silly Tw@t

subtitle "Being a basal prostitute isn't all that great"
 

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AIUI, she wanted Hef to marry her, but he declined, so now she has become a "re-virgin" to get a good beta man.
 

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MatureDJ said:
AIUI, she wanted Hef to marry her, but he declined, so now she has become a "re-virgin" to get a good beta man.
She's married with kids...
 

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I knew a guy in college who had a former gf who ended up being a playmate while he was away at school. He was my drinking buddy's next door neighbor. I did ok with girls in college, but that guy got laid like a mother fvcking rock star. I would be sitting at my friend's place and see the girls come and go. I remember he drove a ford escort wagon and was poor as hell.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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