“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Holiday love - Thought it would never happen, great adventure!

TheGambino

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Guys I went on vacation to Morocco, I visit my family twice a year if I can and I met this HB8 girl in partic who kind of got me off my spinning plates, mentality. Shes a fun outgoing girl that knows a LOT of people, has a LOT of friends and damn so much male attention, ill tell you later but read this for some inspiration, motivation and learn from my mistakes.

I have a nephew who's a natural, he applies all DJ tacticks without even knowing what a DJ is, he f*ks every day a different chick and girls are his thing.

Anyway I thought love didn't exist and I remember a post from a month ago written by my self, don't get too invested with girls emotionally you will regret.

But damn8 bro's I met this girl in a poolbar. My nephew approached her and her friend and I joined them. After I introduced myself she stands before me and lays over the pooltable to play. I stood behind her and she playfully turns around with her face and smiles, flirting started there.

Anyway next day we hit them up and I pick them up early coz my nephew was still working. We go to a shisha (waterpipe) lounge and I start to build a little of rapport, kino and she turns out to have a great outgoing personality. She's fun, loves dancing like me and teases me back what I love about a girl in stead of shy girls. I kino her heavily and she starts begging me for a kiss, I kiss her in front of people and 2-3 hours passed without me even noticing. Her friend was being a b1tch coz we didn't give her attention. After hours my nephew came and we went to a club and got a bottle. We had a great night and we went to the crib of my nephew.

The base of this connection with this girl is 100% sexual attraction. I kino'd heavily kissed her softly and then hard, touched her on the right places. My arabic is good very good but not good enough to game properly. I make mistakes and can't deliver jokes good so mainly Im kind of silent which Im never in Holland with the girls. So I was more mysterious I think while listening a lot to her and asking questions about her, she did most of the talking which is good.

Anyway it was fire in the car, in the elivator all to the appartment she couldnt take her hands off me I kissed her in my bed, teased her, went down on the girl man I made her crazy. She blowed me. When I wanted to f*ck her she resisted told me that it hurted. So I just withdrawed some attention and she kept asking me if I was mad I told her no and we went to sleep. Next morning she was all over me again but I had a wedding party that night so I had to leave.

She texted me that I was a d1ck for not calling her that night with her friends telephone (btw my nephew didnt like her friend at all so he only made fun of her until she left) Next day passed both didnt text or call her phone was broke I knew and she didnt have my number. On monday I went to the poolbar where she always was just to check if she was around and lol there she was. I went pass her and called her name. She turned around and jumped to me grabbed my hand and showed me off to all of her friends and told me where are we going. I took her with me, we went again to shisha lounges hanged around. That night we went to a big club and my nephew brung to girls with him and I brung my girl and her friend. My girl told me she was bored on the top floor and went down, I went with her and she saw a guy which she knew, she went to sit with him, drink with him and even danced with him. To be honest im kind of a good dancer and I fixed this on the Don Juan way credits for all the threads that hellped.

I withdrawed attention and danced with the other girl, we were fire ont he dancefloor switching from salsa to reaggaeton and dancehall music and she just watched us and started to look at me mad. After an hour of dancing and having fun with the other girl, also with my girl she came to me and I acted like nothing happened like a true DJ. I didnt like it that she was drinking at the table of those new guys so I told her this. "You don't respect me know, I don't like that, I'm going up let's go''. I waited 3-4 seconds and I took the other girl and went up. (her friend and her stayed witht he guys)

And yesss 1 minute after me she followed me. Lol she was mad, giving me mad looks and told me im going to leave your not yourself go dance with her. She was jealous just like I wanted, I acted indifferent yet I dont accept disrespect and bullsh1t (credit to all experienced DJ's for that advice) dont take bullsh1t from women when she goes dances with another guy and kissing him on his cheek. If you dont like it tell her and disappear, hold youre frame.

She told me im going to leave. Told her: I like it when your around we have great time together, kissed her and said but if you wanna go im not going to force you to stay, your free to go wherever baby. And she stayed, I isolated her kissed her and sweet talked her.

And btw coz im not good in Arabic like dutch I pedalstalized her all the time that she was beautiful and sweet talked her all the time, I think you can do that if your sexual at the same time kino kino kino kino while you sweet talk her and escalateee. Dont be afraid to be rude, girls like that if you do it in a fun way.

She left earlier and I slept at home without her.

The next night I called her again, and we went straight to the crib, I kino'ed in bed but I started to ask to much questions and she starts to freaking tell her whole life story to me while were kissing. I told her I wanted to f*ck and I tried to escalate but she came up with a bullsh1t story again and I withdrawed attention again and yet I didnt f1ck her. NExt morning we wake up we kiss again and she tells me that she wants to sleep with me but, and that i comfort her and that I make her crazy like she never felt before but she cant have sex coz shes a bit afraid and its only her third time and blabla.

I comfort her like 20minutes of talking and finally I got to lay her. I f1cked her so good lol she screamed and yelled I flipped her over kissed her and she begged me to keep f1cking all year man man man.

ANyway it was 1 of the best lays ever.

That afternoon we went for a walk with the 2 other girls (friend of my nephew) took pictures had fun and sh ekept begging for my d1ck and touching me kissing me. When we were at places without people she jumped on me telling me that she wanted to f1ck again.

Great day passed we went back to the poolbar to pick up her stuff I wanted to introduce her to my mom then her mom got out of the car and came to us she yelled in arabic. are you (my name) and my girl said no its not him its a friend of him. Where did you take my girl she said If i see you again with her your done for it blabla bro I was likw tf is happening. She didnt call her mom for a day while she was hanging with me and her phone battery wwas dead.

She took her daughter with her gave me a nasty look and left. I was shocked bruh but I respected her and turned around and left. My girl called me 5 times that night If I could pick her up but I had no car so we seperated without saying goodbye. and know im back in holland so I didnt see her anymore.

DJ style is gone, I texted her some stuff that I missed her and that I had great memories with her and she texted me back please pick her up. but thats kind of it. Yesterday her friend that was with us all of the time even kissed me when I asked her about my girl. idk why but she could be jealous I resisted at first but kissed back a bit in the end.

anyway love exists this girl put some fire up in me, didnt feel that for ages and I thought it didnt exist I just had plates I made out, even f1cked without a grain feeling, just nexted or skipped for the little stupid things she did lik enot picking up her phone and stuff but this girl damn man...

Btw im logged in on her facebook account on my phone cuz she was her account connected on my phone, like 300-500 guys are talking to her lol its unbelieveable and she responds to all with stuff like: im good babyyy im good cherieee where ar you?? and giving her telephone number out to some of them.

Just letting you guys know :up: still I dont trust her she might be with another 1 right know, I even bet she is.

Keep spinning

all reactions are welcome!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Update on this broad: Trying to call her called 3 times she didnt pick up her phone and clicked me away the third time. Thatz not good dont know whats up.
 

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thanks for the interest bro

Nothing much to be honest, I just want to have some small chit chat convo's on the phone once twice a month maybe a fun skype session once a while until I visit Morocco in the summer again and hit her up too hang out. Thatz it. And I f*ckd her without a condom, kinda worried also. Only spoken to her 1 minute from the moment her mother seperated her from me at that poolbar 2days ago at the phone she asked me to pick her up but I couldn't.

To be honest I cant stand it that I called 5+ times ( i know ) and she didn't pick it up and the third time she even cancelled the call. Maybe shes with other guys, maybe her mother is next to her, her friend told me shes at home and her mother told me if I'd tried to contact her again she would kick my ass lmao (coz she was with me 2 days without calling her mum).

So I wanna know whatsup, maybe her mum took her phone maybe she doesnt want to speak to me it's not clear.

Just wanna hear that shes all fine and id let it be for what it is and move on the spinning my plates like I was used to.

Im from Marrakech bro, big clubs, lots of girls, great city my family lives there aslo. Ive been to Casablanca, Essouiara, Assif, Agadir so many places.
 

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First of all never ever fvck girls without a condom especially ONS or girls you fvck when you are on a vacation or some adventure because i know that girls from morocco are not that ****k carousal like in west and europe but again bro there are stds and there some crazy b!tches there who would try to trap you and stuff.

secondly you are having the wrong mindset and you are looking from a wrong side to it because it was just a fun adventure and some hot secs with a HB. That's it.
you have stopped spinning plates because a girl that you have met on a vacation to your home-country that you go to twice a year? seriously? you should have an abundance mentality and stop caring too much and by the way in morocco standards that girl is a slvt! i know that this sounds weird but morocco is not spain or holland bro!

look at this like this: it was a good adventure and experience. that's it.
it may sounds like a good idea to keep contact with her in hope to meet her again but don't forget that you have game and you picked her up and fvcked her and you will be able to do that to another new girl when you travel in the future.
you may be able to pick a more beautiful and more attractive girl that her. remember this. Abundance mentality and outcome independence

Marrakech is great place i was there last month and Agadir too! but i'm more familiar with north cities like Tangier, Chefchouen, Tetouan and Saidia!
 

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Unless you are going back to Morocco soon then cut all ties because this one is done for.
 

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She uploads two pictures in facebook. First one 'A guy standing and a girl is leaving' with the text 'If he gives you an excuse to leave thank him 1000 times because hes not staying with you'.

next pic 'a girls hand bleeding with a love sign' with the text 'He left you hurt and mad would he do that if he really really cared?'.

Not sure if she wants a reaction out of me or what she means.
One thing is for sure it was puppy love, all over eachother all those days, I think shes having a hard time since I left Morocco.
 

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Soooooo many mistakes made. In short:

1. Overly sweet-talking her and putting her on a pedestal too soon
2. Meeting the Mom - dude, WHY DID YOU THINK MEETING THE PARENTS WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA SO EARLY ON??
3. Assuming that sex = solidified feelings for you - news flash, it doesn't
4. Assuming vacation p*ssy would turn into a relationship - news flash, you still live far away, and long distance relationships rarely work

I could go on, but the bottom line is you got too emotional and wordy with your feelings, and you assumed it would be an actual thing when both you and her knew it probably wouldn't work out like that.
 

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Harry bro, I said I went back to the poolbar to get some stuff she left there and her mum came looking for her there. Her mom was mad because her daughter was with me for the past 2 days and didnt call her. So it was coincidence that she found us there. She yelled at her daughter and told me to leave her daughter alone. I respected her and left, she took her daughter and went home. My girl yelled call me and I disappeared.

Today: She uploads two pictures in facebook. First one 'A guy standing and a girl is leaving' with the text 'If he gives you an excuse to leave thank him 1000 times because hes not staying with you'.

next pic 'a girls hand bleeding with a love sign' with the text 'He left you hurt and mad would he do that if he really really cared?'.

Not sure if she wants a reaction out of me or what she means.
One thing is for sure it was puppy love, all over eachother all those days, I think shes having a hard time since I left Morocco.


Above in bold, she did that today, didnt give her an reaction.

I called her like 5-10 times the last 3 days no response. Last I heard she was looking for me to see me before I left Morocco but I already took the plane to Holland that time.
 

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TheGambino said:
She uploads two pictures in facebook. First one 'A guy standing and a girl is leaving' with the text 'If he gives you an excuse to leave thank him 1000 times because hes not staying with you'.

next pic 'a girls hand bleeding with a love sign' with the text 'He left you hurt and mad would he do that if he really really cared?'.

Not sure if she wants a reaction out of me or what she means.
One thing is for sure it was puppy love, all over eachother all those days, I think shes having a hard time since I left Morocco.
this could very well be in reference to some other guy who she used you to get back at. don't read too much into it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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TheGambino said:
Btw im logged in on her facebook account on my phone cuz she was her account connected on my phone, like 300-500 guys are talking to her lol its unbelieveable and she responds to all with stuff like: im good babyyy im good cherieee where ar you?? and giving her telephone number out to some of them.

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hope you wore protection dude. you sure her 'parents' weren't her pimps?

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:-) said:
this could very well be in reference to some other guy who she used you to get back at. don't read too much into it.
Hmm possible ye this girl is off limitz all guys tryin to talk to her. + she just posted on a guys facebook photo i love you and some likes on guys pictures lol.

F*ck this sh1t dont catch feelings, big pimpin bro this is a learning experience

I didnt use protection but didnt came in her tho

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ic7KH1PpbMY
 

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Hmm possible ye this girl is off limitz all guys tryin to talk to her. + she just posted on a guys facebook photo i love you and some likes on guys pictures lol.

F*ck this sh1t dont catch feelings, big pimpin bro this is a learning experience

I didnt use protection but didnt came in her tho

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ic7KH1PpbMY

well isn't he a lucky boy to have such love from a girl who's muscular tube was invaded by another guy's firm, cylindrical sponge not that long ago. now forget this broad and let's move on. :up:
 

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She hooking Chilling and seeing my nephew bruff these hoes:.... Is she using him to forget me also posting **** on facebook That she Hurt that 'he' left her.
 

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Sounds like trouble! I'd run for the hills before she chews up your heart and regurgitates it. ;)
 

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Lol treir stepping up. My nephew and her called me with tango to show me their together he passed the phone to her she told me i wanna see you miss you bit awkward i said have fun polite bit indifferent told em gotta leave. Work tommorow and hang up the phone. Pffs how would u react to this crap cant be butthurt, period.
 
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