Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LOL!Mr.Positive said:Use a two-part epoxy compound. This will fill in the holes and keep your face from leaking.
You could also try a silicon sealant, but that would be more of a temporary fix.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Are you talking about "acne scar" holes, or pores? Same question to the OP.Dilberto said:Before you soap....in the shower- break open a vitamin E capsule, and smear the oil all over your face. Soap and rinse well with HOT WATER. After showering- dry well, and apply lotion with Aloe Vera. This will get rid of your, "orange-peel" face, in about three weeks. And NO it's not from shaving.....it's from being too dry, or acne scars.