"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Hole!

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I'm kinda in a hole right now in one of my classes. There's only about 7 people in there and I'm always nervous and quiet. I've read the DJ bible but no matter what I cant seem to stay calm and relaxed. And the others in the class already know each other from band and they're mostly juniors and seniors so they dont really say anything to me. I'm trying to get out of my hole and become more social. Any ideas on what I should do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Leon Phelps

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Band F A G S

Im prolly gunna get flamed cuz of all the nerds on the forum, but hey

band fags arent worth your time
 
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I hear what your saying but I dont wanna be so quiet anymore. There's this one girl in there who I occasionally talk to and one time we were kinda joking with each other and I called her a Band geek. She didn't really mind that much. But yeah they are band geeks
 
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simple.

breathe.....

SING!!!! haha that should be a funny icebreaker.:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go to class drunk


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Just start slowly. Try to do something that makes you uncomfortable at least once a day. Eventually you'll become used to socializing and won't feel shy.
 
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Yeah man, alejandro is right, just breathe.........(not in a deepy stalker kinda way) just take some deep breaths. If you feel out of your depth, just think "i have as much right to be here as anyone else".Simple.
 
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