"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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holding out on sex?

blackhatter

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So I've got this girl I've been seeing on and off for awhile.

She didn't take her birth control the past few days, so she started getting her period yesterday.

She put on this sexy little outfit, started giving me a massage and says to me 'I have a secret.. I'm kind of on my period but I still want it.'

Now, there's been many times where I've said sure, let's just get a towel and do it.

But a friend on mine told me to cut that bullsh!t down. He said 'why should you be so desperate for sex that you have it while she's on her period?'

So nicely I told her that I'll have sex with her in the shower. She said she didn't want to shower so I was like 'sorry babe, gotta wait till you're off'

She wasn't pissed, but I'm wondering if any of you ever do that to your women. What do you think about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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focalpoint

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I've never had a problem with period-sex, honestly. It's never been something I've been squeamish about.

Several girls have appreciated that fact, since they always got hornier while on their periods, even.
 

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I wanted my ex to put out on Monday and she pulled the period card. She said that she would be ready for some in 5 days. She better put out...
 

amoka

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Why not wait? You're more vulnerable to any sort of diseases when she is in her period....
 
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