"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Holding a woman's things hostage!!

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Originally posted by mango
So out of the clear blue, and it has been about 6 months now, my stuff shows up in the mail. Mind you I had already decided to let it go, and get another, and forget asking about it. What's that all about? Advice please.
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Its a whole new ball game. The hostage tactic didn't work for this guy because you didn't pay attention to him. Now he decided to release the hostages (your stuff) but he wants something from you. Maybe he wants you to remember him and give him a ring thanking him and thus he would be able to sneak back into your life "as a friend"???? Its never really over if they are able to come back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its never really over if they are able to come back.


WTF, you guys need to get your stories straight. All the DJs here tell guys thast if a girl breaks up with them, its over and they will never be able to have it back. Now your telling the girls that if they break up with them, even if theres minimal contact things will "never be over".

I don't buy it.
 
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that's why I have never agreed with the guys on this board. I am a girl and I don't want it to be over. But because I know how the guy will react, I am able to anticpate his moves and know how to react.

Now you know what this creates...a bunch of countermoves which defeats the whole purpose of trying to be together because everyone is trying not to get their feelings hurt, and to make sure that they are the ones that come out on top. It really sucks I tell you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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