"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hold on... why is texting better than email?

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c0nfus3d1ne

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I've noticed texting isn't condemned like email. To me, they both lack that human touch. What gives?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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did you just arrive on earth?

Do you text back and forth with the spammers who send you email?

Do you text back and forth with your high school teacher? You email them though right?


sh1t
 
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I do read and the information out there is very contradicting and confusing.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penis in vagina
face to face
telephone
text (for short messages, not convos)
aim
email/myspace/facebook


thats my ladder of male to female communication from best to worse
 
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I don't know about you guys but I can't help but trip over all the threads telling guys to stop emailing and texting so much wasting their time rather than just calling a woman and hooking up. I don't know what's in the High School forum though.
 
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