"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hoes in different area codes?

Urbanyst

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I'm not a big online dating guy, but I regularly use Tinder and Bumble just because they are convenient and to the point. Great for getting new plates, lays and dates without much work.

Tinder (which is location based) has a paid feature that allows you to teleport your profile to any city in the world and swipe women in the area. Its a good way to test your market value based on location. But more importantly, its a way to pull hoes in different area codes.

I live on the east coast so I can see having plates in Boston, NYC, Philly, Baltimore, DC, Richmond at the same time. I like doing short weekend trips and thinking it would be nice to have dates lined up in these cities when I visit them and maybe even some long distance plates.

I've never done the long distance relationship thing. Do any of you have experience dealing with plates who live a few hours away from you? Have you ever tried having plates in different cities? Have you been able to have long distance relationships with multiple women? Any tips?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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With all the plate spinners on this forum no one has any input on this?
 
Victory Unlimited

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For the vast majority of men, long distance relationships are fictitious. They're usually just convenient "Travel Hookups" with delusional women who like to pretend that what the two of them have is really something more.

And for most women, long distance relationships are just a convenient fantasy that they allow themselves to believe in primarily for the purpose of convincing their female friends and coworkers that they are not single---and that they have a true "boyfriend", rather than merely a desperate, sucker-boy that they keep on the shelf just in case they ever do need him (This is MOST likely), or a previously-approved "Friend with Benefits" that they have sex with whenever they do actually see each other (This is LESS likely).

V.U.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BeTheChange

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Do-able. But this can come from just being social and meeting a lot of people. And also at least acting like you care about these girls as people rather than just to fvck.

I'm meeting a plate when I hit the East Coast in a few days. She's keen to catch up partly because I don't treat her like an obvious sidepeice (which she is).
 
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