"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

hoes before bros?

D

disco!

New Member
Joined
Jul 13, 2006
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
iv kknown this girl for about a year and there WAS a very strong tension between us, i could tell she wanted me since way back when. anyways she finally came out and admitted she likes me or w.e and i started talking to her more and more, only problem is since that tension is basically gone i thinks shes losing interest. On another point i can tell shes always been very attracted to one of my best friends and they flirt/joke around all the time and hes very good with girls, but im sure she doesnt LIKE him even though she might be attracted. i usually react by not reacting cuz i trust both of them, but should i care? annndd whats a way to make it more exclusive/official with a girl w.o being needy/clingy?


thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

I

IsiMan84

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2005
Messages
546
Reaction score
3
Location
DFW
Should you care? No.

Have you even dated? From the way I read it you haven't. If all you've done is talk, what exactly do you plan on doing, becoming an exclusive talker?
 
R

Randomer

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2006
Messages
133
Reaction score
3
1st of all, it's always bros before hoes... just trust me on that, second of all, before she completely drops interest which seems like it's what she's doing, you're going to have to do something... something more than just talking at least. Go on a date, get physical, something...
 
S

SELF-MASTERY

Banned
Joined
Dec 15, 2004
Messages
1,971
Reaction score
7
ACTUALLY, it is YOU before bros and HOES.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

I

IsiMan84

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2005
Messages
546
Reaction score
3
Location
DFW
It's all about that self-first baby! Trust me on that one.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top