"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We all know it's a good thing to have hobbies, it even helps with DJing. As of lately though, I don't seem to have any hobbies anymore. All I do is study, study and study some more. I used to love to skateboard, snowboard, rock climb and the such. I can no longer afford snowboarding and I'm getting to the age were I just don't have the 8 hours a day I used to to dedicate to skateboarding.

Do any of you have an recommendations of new hobbies for me? I already lift and I still occasionally rock climb and snowboard. I just want a new exciting hobby (i.e. not stamp collecting). Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desert Fox

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Yeah I'd say an instrument is cool, like guitar or keyboard.

If not that, and you prefer computer stuff, I'd probably go with trying to learn how to use Adobe suite programs like Photoshop and illustrator really well just for kicks and for fun.
 

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play videogames.
 

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Martial arts and cycling for me. Some photography and travel here and there too. Camping on occasion. I lift weights too, but I don't include that since I don't enjoy doing it, I just do it for a better physique. If I could have a good physique without working out, I'd never step into a gym again for the rest of my life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My hobbies include:

1) Weight lifting.
2) Guitar.
3) Acting.
4) Dancing.
5) Cooking.

I would love to do a lot more but as a full-time university student it's difficult to find a lot of free time.

Those few hobbies have proven, time and time again, to be useful for the game (Openers, Rapport, DHV) and for myself (I do those things because I have fun doing them).

-VdoubleR
 

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Of course as a musician, I'm first gonna say, pick up an instrument(guitar, bass, drums, keyboards, etc.).

Second to that, give Surfing a shot if you're near the coast. I've been at it since I'm 16. Great hobby/sport, a lot of fun once you know what you're doing. Just be careful.
 

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you guys that said dance you guys actually dance on your free time? it's not a rant just curious... Writing, Reading, Drawing, Lifting, Basketball, Football. Learning an instrument would be cool.
 

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SuavePlaya said:
you guys that said dance you guys actually dance on your free time? it's not a rant just curious... Writing, Reading, Drawing, Lifting, Basketball, Football. Learning an instrument would be cool.
Of course. Going out and dancing is MUCH more fun than, say, going out and drinking. Well, not much more...but comparable. :rockon:
 

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I want to play drums so freakin bad but I live in an apartment. Do you guys that play drums here live out in the country? lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FairShake said:
Of course. Going out and dancing is MUCH more fun than, say, going out and drinking. Well, not much more...but comparable. :rockon:
I never thought I'd say this but I've recently gone out dancing a few times against my will (I dance like your token white nerd who just CANNOT move properly, yet I can drum like a mofo - go figure) and I LOVE IT!! I can't wait to go out next weekend and dance. Just curious, how long did it take before you started moving properly and could actually look decent? :rock:

For the original poster, instruments can give you a lifetime of hobbies man. From picking up my first drumstick 14 years ago to being fluent in guitar, bass, piano, and drums today, it's changed my life in SO many ways. I highly suggest picking up an instrument. Buy a cheapo acoustic and go nuts!
 

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Instruments are very cool. And you'll be able to enjoy making music your whole life.

Here are some of my hobbies: Piano, chess, reading, computers/video editing, photography, biking, skiing, exercising, writing fiction, writing music....
 

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fishing - currently learning to fly fish, but I grew up bass fishing
kayaking
camping - the top 3 blend together quite often
piano
saxophone
poker
Jeeping
wine - starting to learn about it
rollerblading - old hobby, but still enjoy it and most girls like rollerskating
 

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WhitePimp said:
Just curious, how long did it take before you started moving properly and could actually look decent?
I grew up dancing alot actually so it was never a problem for me.

That said, I'm 6'4" and 260lbs, so it's not hard to look dumb.

Anyway, find the right woman and the right club and you'll learn all kinda of things to do.
 

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Sport bikes, Quading,Camping.....
Motorcycles and camping seem to be popular with the girls....

Dancing is next on my list.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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