"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hobbies to take up

gregory

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I need to take up more hobbies to become more well rounded..

im pretty well off so money isnt really an issue..

so far i do guitar and tennis but i dont know what else i can do?

Any ideas?? all i had in mind were golf, and maybe some fishing i dono.

need more stuff. lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I suggest things that would keep you active, healthy and interaction with other people from both sexes.
 

Satori

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I just ordered a mandolin today. If you like guitar and music, you might expand more into that area and try a new instrument. I recently started playing disc golf too, and I've been surprised by how much that has helped get me more involved with people I didn't hang out with much before. The main thing is to find something that you want to do. Don't just pick something at random, pick something that you think you will have a genuine interest in.
 
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