Hoa do i approach women when anxious

[will123]

Temporary workers have a lot more freedom. I agree that it wouldn't be a big issue as a temp.

What i Noticed is that when you give them no free attention they chase YOU! Or atleast it appeared that way to me with me

 

[SW15]

Banging someone you work with has always, always been understood to be a very beta move.

Not only does it show that you care about fanny more than work, you literally have to see that woman every day at work. What if you get sick of them? Or are you just going to marry them? (Beta)

It was more common before the mid-1990s to meet your romantic partner at work.

Starting something romantic/sexual at the workplace is a lot like starting something romantic/sexual in your apartment complex. It's a bad idea. It's shiiting in your own backyard. Even in larger complexes (200+ units), you are still going to run into that woman again.

 

[user252009]

OP i found this guys book about 11 years ago. Check it out. Its an incrimental approach to reducing your bodies stress in social situations. It works for some. Some like the all in method. But It is useful none the less.

http://approachanxiety.com/

Thanks for that one, I'll check it out

 

[will123]

OP i found this guys book about 11 years ago. Check it out. Its an incrimental approach to reducing your bodies stress in social situations. It works for some. Some like the all in method. But It is useful none the less.

http://approachanxiety.com/

Thanks for that.

 

[will123]

approaching women you work with is very poor form. Betas love doing it because they think the woman can’t escape and he can just keep approaching her in the kitchen. It’s why HR teams are huge now. Gotta keep those betas from harassing their colleagues - “Dude, she was asking you for a stapler. She does not want to go for drinks at your place after work.”

Whilst we work together, my job is temporary. I am a temporary worker. I go to different depots depending on where I am needed. Does that change anything?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I have just started a new job. When I first started going I was okay speaking to women saying hello, acknowledging them out of politeness.

However, when I was talking to the manager about leave, a noticed a woman staring at me. When I looked at her, she quickly looked away, pretending she was not looking.

After I came back from leave, I would be chasing after the manager to check my overtime hours, when I noticed this sake woman looking at me. When I looked at her, she HD eye contact with me for about 3 seconds, before I started chatting to the manager.

Recently, I was on my way in and she was on her way out and be bumped into each other. We both were trying to hold the door open for the other in an awkward way. Anyway, because I was wearing my own uniform, she stopped to initiate talk to say knew company clothes have been delivered and to get some. She then complimented my looks and said "well you really smart.".

Since then I feel anxious to speak to her. Any help would be good. I am trying to overcome my shyness and anxiety with women.

You missed the boat. Always assume you wont see her again. Act accordingly. Close ASAP or take digits. This was like scoring on an open net and you didn't shoot lulz.

It's never just about any 1 girl but cultivate being THAT GUY.

 

[will123]

You missed the boat. Always assume you wont see her again. Act accordingly. Close ASAP or take digits. This was like scoring on an open net and you didn't shoot lulz.

It's never just about any 1 girl but cultivate being THAT GUY.

Is it possible to reinstate their Interest? If so, how?

At the moment I am just doing my thing and acting like she isn't there. If I see her I will day hello to be polite but I won't go looking to talk, just act like she isn't there

 

[Epimanes]

Nervous and excited are nearly the same feeling.. approach it like your excited.

Helps change the mind set.

Epi

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Is it possible to reinstate their Interest? If so, how?

At the moment I am just doing my thing and acting like she isn't there. If I see her I will day hello to be polite but I won't go looking to talk, just act like she isn't there

No. Clearly you aren't. Writing on a thread about a girl you awkwardly tried to flirt with isn't your own thing. It's 99% of men that don't approach but watch 6 day boomer rp podcasts.

Actually go get GIRLS. not her. All of them or not for a lack of effort. Watch the trailer of unleashed with jet Li. Collars off. Instead of kicking ass you are taking your D out and beating it rotten.

Acting like she isn't there is what create this thread and led you to pornhub. You got to nut up and actually put work in. Cut the boomer podcasts and go chat up girls. Lots. Log off here. Don't return until you got some success worth noting.

Everyone who infatuates over a girl finds his cherish on the carousel. Guaranteed she's a modern women. If your not hitting it, who is? These girls are not waiting. Step up or step aside.