"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJinTraining06

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i experimented a bit with this new girl i been talkin to off of match.com. I decided She told me in our first phone convo that she hates dating cuz it's like u have to one-up the other. She said she feels if she lieks someone why cant she just call them? Ok so i figured this was typical female bs again, and that she would be just as turned off by a guy callin her the next day as any other girl.

Well. this girl texted me after out convo, texted me again at 9 am the next morning to say - "have a great day". She called me at noon and left me a voicemail also. So i decided to experiement with this girl and call her at 6 pm when i got home from work to see how she'd respond to that. Well, she was all excited to talk to me. She texted me today again to ask how i was doin.
So i decided to keep the experiment goin and did the most AFC thing i could think of. I said via text message - "hey r u free tonite, we should grab coffee or something"

She texted me back sure sounds good, im free.

So is this girl insane, or is this just proof that all girls r diff and u should do watever u want, and if the girl doenst like it, then she prob just isnt that into u.

i have a feelin she is insane tho, she's 5'10'', enormous rack, beautiful face, blue eyes. The only negative i could see is that shes big boned. She's def a large frame, and she has meat on her bones. But its not chubby if u know wat i mean, its more a result of bone structure, but i think she's gorgeous from the pics. Great face. its funny i'm 5'6'' and 155 lbs. lol Wed look ridiculous together. Dont bother me tho. She told me she's above that stuff. She was like niki hilton is 5'11'' with a 5'5'' guy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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some guys here would have you believe that there was no sex before this site... Sounds like she likes you. Go out on the date, play it cool and just have fun! Its important to remember that you have free rein if a girls really into you. This girl I banged last week blew off going to an important soccer match her roommate had just to go out with me.
 

DJinTraining06

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vorbis said:
some guys here would have you believe that there was no sex before this site... Sounds like she likes you. Go out on the date, play it cool and just have fun! Its important to remember that you have free rein if a girls really into you. This girl I banged last week blew off going to an important soccer match her roommate had just to go out with me.

haha niceeee. They will blow off their grandma for a guy. But yea thats funny, no sex before this site. it's true people take this stuff too seriosuly, myself included.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJinTraining06 said:
...She texted me today again to ask how i was doin.
So i decided to keep the experiment goin and did the most AFC thing i could think of. I said via text message - "hey r u free tonite, we should grab coffee or something"

She texted me back sure sounds good, im free. ...
WTF???!! Why was that AFC? So you didn't wait three days or whatever the official number is nowadays, why would you???!!! SHE'S VERY INTERESTED IN YOU!!! This is what I told you should have done with the chick on the train. Think about it, what if she said that she wanted to come to your house and fvck you until your eyes rolled to the back of your head, TWICE!! Would you have said "Oh no, we can't do that, it hasn't been three days..." :rolleyes:

Guys need to stop focusing so much on the rules because they miss out on obvious signs to make a move. I will say that you did very well with quickly moving from email messages to an actual date. That's another major qualifier to determine whether she's interested or not. :up:
 
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