Hmmmmm

[Will900]

I'm dating this girl and been with her for about 2 weeks. She is perfect just one problem. She winds me up a lot! What does it mean when women wind men up about things? For example she says to me right I'm going out tonight, then i say oh nice who with? She says my other boyfriend??? I'm like what!! Then after about 5 minutes of joking about she says oi I'm only kidding, then starts laughing.

When she says things like that it really hurts and makes me feel like theirs another man involved?

Any ideas?
Thanks

 

[playerone]

Lol. She's a DJ. You gotta play the indifferent game. Act like you're not affected by what she said at all, although apparently you are. Make fun of what she says about being with the other guy.

"Oh, is he gay?"

Haha. Be in control.

 

[CaliGuyInLondon]

yah i agree with ItsTheAttitude. you gotta be indifferent. say something like, oh sweet, you bringin hiim back for a threesome after? just act like you don't give a ****. and the secret is to not give a ****.

 

[JJMcLure]

She is testing your reaction to try to gauge how into her you are.

You can't show it affects you or she will know she can pull your strings (has power over you). If she says that you can just say cool, you have plans with one of your other chicks.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Umm...if my girlfriend joked about having another bf i wouldnt just let that sh*t slide. I wouldnt get bent out of shape and id probably play along, but at the same time i would keep my eyes open. I would tell my girlfriend i have another girl as a joke. There ARE other ways to joke about stuff and guage intrest. Also, if you know she does stuff like that, stop being a fool and falling for it everytime.

 

[theunflushables]

It sounds like she has a sense of humor. Play a long, tell her its good she's going out with her other boyfriend because it gives you a chance to invite your other girlfriend over. Don't be so serious about it man. She's just teasing you.