"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmmmmm...why did this happen? & a funny story

Jaun_Don

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Met a great girl, we had pizza, vodka,movies and awesome sex and really dig each other...she even texted me today to tell me that she was horny and that i have given her the feeling back...anyways while this was all good...there were more than a few occassions where I wasn't having sex with Her and actually my room mate K in my head was the one was I was ****ing and let's just say even though it felt even better for her...lol...It didn't feel good knowing that she was in my head while I was making love to a fantastic Woman I feel like I cheated on her a little, I can't tell my friends about this because it doesn't seem right.

I don't know does this happen to other guys?.

This girl is amazing and oh yeah she likes porn and even let me borrow a DVD...of hers! :cheer:



This story is funny and I swear it's all true.

and man I have my confidence back 100% now I was flirting with a cute cafe girl and we were laughing about how poppy seeds get stuck in your teeth and I looked at her and smiled and casually said "I know what I'd like to get stuck into" and she looked at me shocked with her mouth wide open, punched me in the arm and said "excuse me"? while brushing her back and caressing her neck and then she said too me I might have too look out for the likes of you...and I just said "yeah maybe" , smiled and told her to have a lovely day and she should have seen the smile I got, she even gave me 4 stamps on my 10 coffee club card.

:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't know if this relates, but whenever I **** a girl in a motel, the TV is on, and the porn is showing.

Whilst ****ing her doggy style I am focused on the TV set. LOL

I guess it's normal. Dont think too much about it.
 

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Originally posted by lets_do_this
I don't know if this relates, but whenever I **** a girl in a motel, the TV is on, and the porn is showing.

Whilst ****ing her doggy style I am focused on the TV set. LOL

I guess it's normal. Dont think too much about it.
It's not that, it's that I shouldn't be thinking of that ***** that's what I meant...It's like she has some power over me...
 

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It's perfectly normal, as long as you're not obsessed with the chick you were thinking about during sex.

You'll have better sex if you can clear your mind, but either way it's nothing to worry about. Any guy with experience that says it's never happened to him is a lying mofo. Women do this too.

If you start thinking about Oprah Winfrey, Janet Reno, or Margret Thatcher during sex, seek counseling immediately :D

Sometimes when I'm stressed out, my brain tries to multi-task: *oh baby* *oh baby* *hmmm I should put snow tires on the suburban today* *oh baby*
 

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Originally posted by GirlCrazy
It's perfectly normal, as long as you're not obsessed with the chick you were thinking about during sex.

You'll have better sex if you can clear your mind, but either way it's nothing to worry about. Any guy with experience that says it's never happened to him is a lying mofo. Women do this too.

If you start thinking about Oprah Winfrey, Janet Reno, or Margret Thatcher during sex, seek counseling immediately :D

Sometimes when I'm stressed out, my brain tries to multi-task: *oh baby* *oh baby* *hmmm I should put snow tires on the suburban today* *oh baby*
I'm hoping I'm not at times I still think and talk about her even though I hate her and haven't seen her in almost a month.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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