"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hmmmmm...why did this happen? & a funny story

Jaun_Don

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Met a great girl, we had pizza, vodka,movies and awesome sex and really dig each other...she even texted me today to tell me that she was horny and that i have given her the feeling back...anyways while this was all good...there were more than a few occassions where I wasn't having sex with Her and actually my room mate K in my head was the one was I was ****ing and let's just say even though it felt even better for her...lol...It didn't feel good knowing that she was in my head while I was making love to a fantastic Woman I feel like I cheated on her a little, I can't tell my friends about this because it doesn't seem right.

I don't know does this happen to other guys?.

This girl is amazing and oh yeah she likes porn and even let me borrow a DVD...of hers! :cheer:



This story is funny and I swear it's all true.

and man I have my confidence back 100% now I was flirting with a cute cafe girl and we were laughing about how poppy seeds get stuck in your teeth and I looked at her and smiled and casually said "I know what I'd like to get stuck into" and she looked at me shocked with her mouth wide open, punched me in the arm and said "excuse me"? while brushing her back and caressing her neck and then she said too me I might have too look out for the likes of you...and I just said "yeah maybe" , smiled and told her to have a lovely day and she should have seen the smile I got, she even gave me 4 stamps on my 10 coffee club card.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know if this relates, but whenever I **** a girl in a motel, the TV is on, and the porn is showing.

Whilst ****ing her doggy style I am focused on the TV set. LOL

I guess it's normal. Dont think too much about it.
 

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Originally posted by lets_do_this
I don't know if this relates, but whenever I **** a girl in a motel, the TV is on, and the porn is showing.

Whilst ****ing her doggy style I am focused on the TV set. LOL

I guess it's normal. Dont think too much about it.
It's not that, it's that I shouldn't be thinking of that ***** that's what I meant...It's like she has some power over me...
 

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It's perfectly normal, as long as you're not obsessed with the chick you were thinking about during sex.

You'll have better sex if you can clear your mind, but either way it's nothing to worry about. Any guy with experience that says it's never happened to him is a lying mofo. Women do this too.

If you start thinking about Oprah Winfrey, Janet Reno, or Margret Thatcher during sex, seek counseling immediately :D

Sometimes when I'm stressed out, my brain tries to multi-task: *oh baby* *oh baby* *hmmm I should put snow tires on the suburban today* *oh baby*
 

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Originally posted by GirlCrazy
It's perfectly normal, as long as you're not obsessed with the chick you were thinking about during sex.

You'll have better sex if you can clear your mind, but either way it's nothing to worry about. Any guy with experience that says it's never happened to him is a lying mofo. Women do this too.

If you start thinking about Oprah Winfrey, Janet Reno, or Margret Thatcher during sex, seek counseling immediately :D

Sometimes when I'm stressed out, my brain tries to multi-task: *oh baby* *oh baby* *hmmm I should put snow tires on the suburban today* *oh baby*
I'm hoping I'm not at times I still think and talk about her even though I hate her and haven't seen her in almost a month.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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