"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ_Matthew

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Well it's been almost 2 years I've known about this site and I still have made little progress...

I'm just fed up of telling myself I will become a DJ and getting girls and I don't do anything about it.

Today was one of the saddest days of my life. I went to the movies with my friend and he brought a girl from his school. I was watching the movie while they we're making out and having fun. I felt like complete **** and I relieved how lonely I was. I almost started to cry, that's how sad I really was.

I'm sick and tired of jacking off all the time. I'm seriously going to stop.

I know I'm not the only one in this situation, a lot of people posting here are like me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HandyAndy

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Im in the same situation, but Ive been learning for 6 months or more. Ive changed so much I cant begin to explain, now that ive learned all this info, its time to apply it. And approach! Which I still self conscious issues about.
 

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Hey i know what you mean. The only thing you can really do is make an attempt to work on yourself. You should let those kind of things motivate you, seeing your friend with a girl and getting sad about it. You don't have live like that any longer. If there's something bothering you about your life you should make an attempt to change it so that situation won't continue to repeat itself.
 

DJ_Matthew

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HandyAndy said:
Im in the same situation, but Ive been learning for 6 months or more. Ive changed so much I cant begin to explain, now that ive learned all this info, its time to apply it. And approach! Which I still self conscious issues about.
I've changed a lot, my way of thinking and all, but I still have trouble with women. Reading something won't make you better with women, it's practicing it and applying it that will.

Comeback kid said:
Hey i know what you mean. The only thing you can really do is make an attempt to work on yourself. You should let those kind of things motivate you, seeing your friend with a girl and getting sad about it. You don't have live like that any longer. If there's something bothering you about your life you should make an attempt to change it so that situation won't continue to repeat itself.
I didn't really feel sad because it was my friend... I felt sad because I hadn't really done anything to help my situation in those 2 years and I was just tired of being alone. I hate my school and I'm fed up of a lot of things... it's time to change.
 

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Ok , you are in HS .

Are you social ?

Are you popular ?

Do you have social proof ?

Are you leader of your friends ?

All these matters on HS .

But you can reach them just by reading some amazing articles here. Im talking about getting pvssy in school . I have a book Conquer Your Campus and maybe ill send it to you later . I havent read it but its all about HS/College .

But i think , your problem is because your not applying anything in real life .
First of all , try to work on your inner self . Then things will come .
Maybe ill write something more detailed later here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Ok , you are in HS .

Are you social ?

Are you popular ?

Do you have social proof ?

Are you leader of your friends ?

All these matters on HS .

But you can reach them just by reading some amazing articles here. Im talking about getting pvssy in school . I have a book Conquer Your Campus and maybe ill send it to you later . I havent read it but its all about HS/College .

But i think , your problem is because your not applying anything in real life .
First of all , try to work on your inner self . Then things will come .
Maybe ill write something more detailed later here.
Yes I'm social.

Pretty popular.

I sometimes have social proof.

I'm sometimes the leader.

I've applied a lot, but I haven't gotten the results I wanted. I've grown a lot of balls and I mean a lot ;)

Besides, my school has about 600 students so I'm limited sometimes. It's a private school and there's no that many hot chicas in my grade.
 

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DJ_Matthew said:
Besides, my school has about 600 students so I'm limited sometimes. It's a private school and there's no that many hot chicas in my grade.
You should do what Im starting to do.

Go to a nearby college that you know you wont go to after HS and practice your stuff. Get good there. Keeep in mind that whatever happens doesnt matter. Go there mess up, learn:cool:
 
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